Donna M's great article about the United States' lack of accommodation for new parents and my recent trip to Mexico have given me an insight about why illegal immigrants come here. It just suddenly added up, like a column of numbers. The clouds opened up, and the curtain parted, and I finally understood why all those people come here.
But first, a disclaimer. I know that not all illegal immigrants are from Mexico, or even Hispanic. Many of them are, and so most of what I have to say has to do with them.
Illegal immigrants don't come here because they are fleeing a terrible situation in their homeland, most of the time. It isn't because they can't make a living at home. It isn't even because they are desperately poor, although that is what we hear.
They've been brainwashed. Let me explain.
If you earn $10 a day, you're poor. If I tell you that you can come to America and get a job making $10 an hour, you'll want to sign up. Now back to being "poor". If you earn $10 a day, and your rent is $10 a week, then 20% of your income goes to pay for housing, assuming a 5-day work week. But in the US, with your $10-an-hour job, you can live in an apartment that costs $600 a month, or $150 a week. You make $400 a week, so you spend 37.5% of your income on housing. Almost every category across the board will be the same. Low wages, low prices. When the prices outstrip the ability of people to purchase, the market dries up. Now think about it: Who is poorer, the person who has to spend 20% of his or her income on housing or the one who spends over 37%?
But in America, it's different. First of all, we have credit. Can't afford it? Someone will lend you the money, for a price. The poorer you are, the higher the price will be, but they'll stretch it out so it looks doable on the day you sign your life away.
I don't think the coyotes bringing people here tell them about the prices, only the money they'll earn.
When these people come here, they have no idea that bread could cost $3 a loaf. It costs 2.5 pesos, or about 22 cents in Mexico. They have absolutely no idea that they are about to get into a situation that is way beyond their control. Ever wonder why you find illegal aliens living 10 to an apartment? You can stop now. It's the only way they can make ends meet.
Every day while they live here, they are barraged with advertisements, some in Spanish, that tell them that the good life is just one purchase away, just the same as the rest of us. We all hear over and over how we are the land of opportunity, and most of us buy the propaganda as fast as the advertisers can spin it out.
In Mexico, things are different. Women take their children with them to work. Not all of them, but many. Everyone does something, and some people do several things. If you want to work in Mexico, all you have to do is look for a need and fill it. Sell fruit in the market, do laundry, iron for people, clean houses, wash windows. Mexicans are no strangers to work. Children work, old people work, cripples work. And in return, they all have a measure of dignity. A Mexican hotel keeper will sweep the street in front of the property to be sure that it looks clean and cared-for.
For most of them the work pays off. They have what they need, and maybe some of what they want. And, occasionally, like the rest of us, they do without some things. But corporate America is encroaching, and they are being informed of all the things they are missing, like iPods and video games (which are astronomically expensive there), and they are buying into the tricksters' three-card monty game by the legion.
They think if they can only get that big payday, everything will be better. Can you really say you think any differently? So they come. They put up with our abuse, give up their dignity, allow us to revile their culture, all in the hope that they, too, will strike it rich, just like everyone says they will.
It didn't happen for you. It won't happen for them. But they know in their hearts that if they just try hard enough, it will get better. Only it never does.
Remember when you were 18, and you wanted to do something stupid that no one could talk you out of? Remember finding out that everyone else was right? It's like that for them. Some of us never find out, or refuse to see. And as long as corporate America keeps assuring them that the grass is greener on this side of the fence, they'll keep on coming.
Pax.


Comments: 19
The police are corrupt. Drug dealers run wild.
They have credit, but its more like loan sharking.
They don't have what they need. (Many children go hungry)
Not that I think it's alright for Illegal Immigrants to enter any country illegally.
(it's not)
The immigrants I have seen, illegal or otherwise (I did not ask them)
are very hard workers. Maybe if the employers of illegal immigrants did not hire them, the grass would be less green this side of the border.
That being said, I enjoyed reading your opinion and rated it 10.
You voiced your opinion, I may not agree. At least you were honest.
In Mexico, if you make $50 a week, you can live on it. The police everywhere are corrupt. Drug dealers run wild here, and the news you get about the border towns is about the border towns, which are not representative of the rest of the country. Many children here are badly nourished, but since we feed them tons of sugar, they don't look skinny and sickly, they're still malnourished.
The illegal immigrants coming here have been sold a bill of goods. Corporate America wants to enslave them the way they've enslaved the rest of us. And credit, the ugly kind that preys on the already-poor is indeed coming to Mexico. But most people appear to be living within their means, which is more than you can say for many Americans.
As for the Mexicans, Marilyn is right, most send the money home where their families are maintaining a home for them to return to. Who can blame them? Here in Montana, most of the ones I see are male and yes they do live packed in apartments and trailers, because they couldn't afford the rent if they didn't. My husband is in construction and works with a Mexican man. He's the nicest guy you'd ever want to meet, who cares for deeply for his family, and has sacrificed being with them in order to provide for them. I'm sure there are bad apples crossing the border, too, but we have bad apples in every race..... Virginia Tech ring a bell.
I have a friend (my friend's mother actually) lives & owns property in Mexico.
She owns property in the Playas area of Rosarito Beach. (Playas means beach,it refers to a few specific streets out of several along the coast)
She lives on another property in La Huerta, Mexico. (Hours from Guadalajara and not near any border)
She also owns another property near Mexico City. I have been to each property. None of them are in the rich areas. (where the politicians and government live)
You can't live off of 50.00 a week in Mexico. Rent is 200.00- 300.00 for a 1-2 bedroom apartment, more for a house. Those are the places without indoor plumbing.
(They have outhouses)
Most of these "homes" have a hot electrical wire hanging in an open area. (Dangerous for everyone) Fires are extremely common. So much so that you cannot get insurance or a loan on a home made out of wood. Which is why you will find every home is made out of cement and cheap drywall ONLY. (Very hot in the summer, VERY cold in the winter)
Your gas and electric bill is less (around 40.00 a month). You have to buy water and carry it home yourself. They pay for their water and the majority of families do not own cars)
Cooking is done primarily with propane. (add another cost for the propane tank)
Groceries are a little less, but not tremendously.
There is no such thing as health insurance. Doctor visits cost around 50.00.
If a child needs ten stitches for example it costs 250.00. If you cannot pay, your child gets no stitches. It is that simple.
Even in the good neighborhoods, if someone breaks into your house, if the police approve or know the criminal, the police will not come to your home when you call them. Many policemen are involved with selling or manufacturing of narcotics.
This is only a small piece of life in Mexico. Believe me, I have seen it.
I am not speaking of the border towns, or cruise ship cities.
When I mentioned that "Many children go hungry", I did not mean malnourished. I meant starving. I am not talking about not eating a healthy diet, I am talking about maybe eating one meal a day, IF they are lucky.
Your right about one thing:
"The illegal immigrants coming here have been sold a bill of goods.Corporate America wants to enslave them the way they've enslaved the rest of us."
YES they have, we all have. (as you said)
Out of all the cities in Mexico that I have spent time in, I have yet to see that
"most people appear to be living within their means".
I don't know where you have been in Mexico, or what you have seen firsthand.
Maybe it's different in other cities I have not seen. Right now, I tend to doubt it.
My aunt worked with an agency (for ten years) that traveled to many towns in Mexico, helping babies and children get the immunizations they need.
I can only speak of what I have seen firsthand, thats over 50+ cities and towns
where Mexican citizens are doing anything but living within their means.
Still, that does not give an Mexican citizen a free ticket to live or sneak into America.
I am not sure what I would do if I was born in Mexico. I doubt I would stay there.
I'm sure in most third world countries are not much better. I wish that was not the truth but it is.
I think Mexican citizens come to American, because Mexico is so screwed up this is the only place their hard work can pay off. That's just me.
(and I'm not Mexican)
They listen to stories about American from their cousins, friends and neighbors who work here already. They are smarter than you would think, don't trust the coyotes and only speak to them because they are desperate to get here.
Did you know that Mexico City is one of the top ten dangerous places to travel. (in the world!) Most of Mexico is just as dangerous. The murder rates are just crazy.
Thanks for letting me vent my opinion. I have just seen too much to believe otherwise.
I have no idea why I chose to read and comment on this article..(lol)
Usually I wouldn't.
I am glad you also, can disagree with me without being disagreeable.
:-) SERIOUSLY!
We can agree to disagree and I am still your "gather connection".
(or we can go on some more and you'll get a few more points...ROFL)
Please allow my attempt at humor here, my mother is coming to visit tomorrow.
The stress seems to be getting to me...;-)
No one said that anyone could live on $50 a week in Mexico. What I said, and I stand by my assertion, is that if $50/wk is the prevailing wage, people will be able to live on it because market forces will ensure it. I have no idea what the prevailing wage in Mexico is, but people live on it. Those who do not attempt to live beyond their means (read: live like Americans) are okay. The rest reap what they sow, as do we all.
Mexico City, being the largest city in the world, would most likely be dangerous, as are Los Angeles, New York, and Calcutta.
I have no illusions that Mexico is Utopia, but their society has a measure of humanity that ours lacks. You see, on the whole, the Mexicans have yet to sell their souls to the corporations in return for promises of things that will never happen.
About the homes made out of cement and brick and not wood: I believe a lot of that is because of termites.
About crime: I've been to Mexico City and Monterrey several times -- I believe that the crime is for the most part localized, just as it is in large American cities: if you know where to go and where not to go, you tend to be OK.
I've never been to Mexico, but I've lived in another third world country for several years, and what I've seen is very similar to what Joy describes for Mexico: no, it's not possible to live there on what most of the kinds of jobs you mention pay, the jobs that are available for the underprivileged. Some jobs do not pay enough to cover transportation and lunch, which is why many young people in these countries just hang out on the corner to see what might be coming their way. Incidentally, while some food items are cheaper there than in the US, some are actually more expensive (much is imported). So based on my experiences there--Mexico obviously has different customs--if you call "living within their means" eating only sardines, chicken back, rice, and cooked flour, children having to share chairs, let alone books, at school, and single beds at home, and older people never seeing a doctor until going to the hospital to die, then yes, everybody lives somehow. (There are obviously people doing much better than that--including a strong middle class.) But there's a reason more people from that country--and from Mexico--are here illegally than from Sweden, and it's not because they have bought into the myth more than the Swedes did. As Rico said, they know what they're coming to put up with, they have done the math, and it's still worth it. It's still worth it because conditions are really bad at home, opportunities are scarce, and for many families the level of coping that you've seen is actually only possible because of the remittances sent by relatives working in the US. (If you like the market forces theory, you need to add to it the understanding that the phenomenon of some of the people "going up north" is one of those forces, a part of the Mexican economy as it is today, not something outside of it.)
I wish it weren't so, but this is the truth.
This also means that if all, or even a significant portion of illegal immigrants were deported, Mexico and many other countries in the region that are now more or less managing could become destabilized and end up as some of the "failed states" in Africa. This is hardly in the interest of the US (and I think it is something many US decision makers do understand).
I don't know what the solution is to this. I'm afraid there might not be one.
1. How long did you stay in Mexico?
2. How many families did you stay with while you were there?
3. Did the friends you made there tell you there incomes and the details of their financial situations?
4. How many illegal immigrants have you known, intimately, in this country?
5. Did any of them tell you why they came here?
6. How many of them (rough estimate will do) told you stories that support this article?
7. How many of them did you turn in? (again, rough estimate will do)
8. In the last month, how many of the people at your dinner table spoke a language other than English as their first language?
9. Same question as number 8, for the last year.
10. Are you willing to consider the possibility that you have been brainwashed?
1: I worked there for a few years and traveled the land extensively
2. 6 or 7 off and on, but knew, and still know, quite a few more than that
3. Yes, actually, they did
4. In the US? I've interacted with a few hundred or more over the years
5. Yes
6. The majority
7. None. Ever. Not for being illegal, at any rate.
8. LOL Everyone, but now we're into Swedish, not Mexican. However, for many years my step-mom graced my dinner table. She's Mexican
9. Same answer as number 8
10. Yes. Everyone has been brainwashed. The US is trying to get the whole freakin world brainwashed, one country at a time. They are even working very hard at it herte in Sweden at the moment.
Now.
Ann is right. So is everyone else in this thread. You see, the reasons and living arrangements are as varied in Mexico as they are in the US. People starving down there? You betcha some are. Many are... just like they are in the US.
Some come here with eyes wide open. Other come for having bought into the propaganda.
Crime? Oh please folks.... Walk down a street in the Bronx at night lately?
Corruption? Of course there is... only in Mexico you at least know who to bribe and how much, and it is reasonable amounts. Equal opportunity corruption... unlike the US where you have be a worth millions to buy someone.
My hands hurt too much to finish this particular novel... but you all get my drift.