The first time I traveled very far into Mexico, I did it for the sole purpose of demonstrating to my children that "poor" is in the eye of the beholder. What I discovered is that it is also largely a state of mind.
We saw people who lived in boxcars and caves. The cave-dwellers were following their ancestral tradition that reached back to before anyone alive remembers. Those same people dressed in traditional garments they made themselves that identified them as members of their tribal group. We saw women who wove fragrant baskets of pine needles in the marketplace for a living, while their children played nearby or napped in their laps.
We also saw beggars. I don't know how long it's been since I saw a beggar on a U.S. street, but they are not nearly as rare in Mexico as they are here. Some of these beggars were obviously unable to worlk, while others appeared to prefer sitting with their hands out over finding honest work.
Then there were the thousands of business people. Mexico is a country of entrepreneurs. Every nook and cranny of business districts is devoted to negocios. We saw a shoe-store that lined the stairway to an upstairs cyber cafe and a newsstand that wouldn't have made a good broom closet. There are hundreds of street vendors selling everything from food to flowers. Some of the best food I have ever eaten was bought from Mexican street vendors. 
Mexicans love music. They tolerate street musicians and allow roving bands of musicians to serenade restaurant customers and the general public for tips.
Mexicans are not afraid of color. Being there made me realize that the world I live in is plumb, level, square, and beige. In Mexico, nothing matches. The drab color harmony of our subdivisions is highlighted by the lack of uniformity there. If your neighbor's house is green, that is a great reason to paint yours marigold or rose. Here we call it loud. They don't call it anything, preferring simply to enjoy it. 
Don't get me wrong. Mexico is nothing like Utopia. I met a Mexican border agent who took great pride in making me empty my auto and lectured me severly on the fact that Mexico did indeed have laws. A somewhat short fellow, we promptly dubbed him Napoleon, and he was last seen having his boots polished at work, as we sped off for the bus station.
There were things about America that I missed. The shoestore in the stairwell had removed the handrails in order to display stock. In fact, many of the standard building and fire code regulations to which we have grown accustomed are completely unknown there. Handrails are not required on steps or stairwells, sidewalks may be as narrow as nine inches, and business doors open in whichever direction is most convenient for the owner of the building. The food vendors' only health regulation seems to be that it's bad for business if they repeatedly make people sick. I saw municipal workers doing things that would make OSHA shut the entire country down forever, all in a day's work, and I saw horrible degradation of the environment in the name of commerce.
But people are important in Mexico in a way they are not in this country. Road construction is done by workers, rather than by machinery. They build masonary structures from scaffolding rather than building forms and bringing in tons of instant rock (concrete). This practice employs many times the number of workers that would be needed by our construction methods. Cities have departments of "limpieza" or cleanliness, which employ people to walk the streets and alleyways picking up trash and sweeping the sidewalks. In Guanajuato, which lives in perpetual traffic gridlock, pedestrians have the right of way.
I stayed in a hotel run by a family whose business consisted of running a hotel, a cyber cafe, and a novelty store in the hallway that ran from the street. Their eight-year-old son, Oliver, served as bellman. Their daughters and daughters-in-law worked as chambermaids. everyone took turns at the desk, and they ironed the bedsheets. This was a $30-a-night hotel in a building that was easily 300 years old. These people never failed to greet me pleasantly whether I was coming or going.
I also saw American materialism encroaching on Mexican society. Costco, Sam's, Home Depot, and Walmart all do a thriving business there, and I suspect that they are putting some of the smaller local merchants out of business. There are subdivisions being built on the outskirts of cities that promise the good life, where every house looks like every other (except in some, where they are painted different colors). I fervently hope the Mexican people do not loose their soul to the disease of American-brand consumerism and the homogenizing forces of keeping up with the Joneses.


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Great article bringing some insight to people who have never been there.
It is a place where part of my heritage is and will never forget it.
I am also amazed that, even with extreme poverty, many of these folks are the happiest people I have ever met. I think there is a lesson to be learned there for us all.
The Wal-Mart thing makes me sick. Is there no corner of the earth that is safe from that monster.
You are right on with so many points here.
Great article.
But I want to point out that there is a big difference between the MEXICAN PEOPLE and the MEXICAN GOVERNMENT! Corruption, greed and human right violations are rampant in our government . Right now there are many popular struggles to put down some of the most corrupt and criminal ones, as the Oaxaca State Government. You can read an unbiased report at the Amnesty International web page, titled: "Mexico Clamour for Justice, Oaxaca AI Inform" posted on August the 1st, 2007. I hope this fight for justice will put an end to that trend to become one more rich country. We want to be not the richest but the justest country on Earth! Even if our income is just enough to guarantee a calm and patient way of life....
Every year when they left it seemed like they were gone forever. I missed them so much and couldn't wait for them to get back. When they returned they'd show me pictures and tell me stores about the people and places they saw. It all sounded so exciting and I longed to go with them.
Then the summer I turned eleven they took me along. I was so excited and absolutely thrilled to go. We were all excited.
But that was nothing compared to the way I felt when I got there. And I can honestly say that as young as I was I knew there was something special about Mexico.
The village we visited is named Zipiemieo and it located in Michiocan, Mexico, which is deep into Mexico. This was back in the very early 1970's but when we were there it was just like stepping back in time. It was like something out of a Clint Eastwood western.
Our family were one of the few famalies that had electricity and a washing machine. The women in the village washed their clothes on rocks in the stream and dried in the sun.
At dusk the hearders with the livestock came home. They prodded through the main village, cows and all. The streets were dusty roads or cobblestone.
Unless we went into another town or somewhere far, we rode horses and donkys to get around. We went to the cantina to buy sweet bread and sometimes a beer for one of the adults.
They held dances in the village pavillion. And everybody went. The music and the dancing and everything was just something I'd never experienced before. This was one of the best times of my life and the whole experience is one of my most treasured memories.
I married my best friends brother, however, we seperated some twentyfive years ago. These days I'm no longer a member of the family, however, I do still keep in touch with my sister-in-law and best friend.
She still visits Mexico when she can. Recently she sent me some pictures of their last trip. And even though it basically lookd the same, I did notice a few changes.
The first thing I noticed in one of the pictures was the telephone poles and lines. They weren't there before, and this really disappointed me. It seemed like someting wasn't right. They didn't belong there. I know Mexico is trying to get with the times, but it was sad to see these changes.
I remember a conversaton with the head of the family there. He had my then, unbeknownst to me, future mother-n-law translate for me. Like I said, I was only eleven and I don't remember the conversation very well, but it was something like, he was glad I was there and he wanted me to come back again, and then he said something like, "even though it's dirty" something to that affect, and I remember saying,"but I like it dirty..."
I didn't think it was, but, he must have thought that's what I and everyone else thought. No, I didn't think it was dirty, I thought it was beautiful and I will never forget the summer I was eleven because of it.
It is important to differentiate between the Mexican people and the Mexican government, as Alvaro R stated. There is much work to be done.
Mexico must fix its own problems. The burden on the US is too great to support.
I say this with respect. I also speak Spanish.
Sue W.
Fox in the 1990's?!? get your facts straight before talking...the 90's were still years of the PRI ruling Mexico.....Fox didn't get elected until 2000.
Besides, with all due respect, saying that the 90's was when Mexico got into economic trouble shows ignorance (yes, I'm saying it respectfully). Just look at the inflation rates of the 80s decade (yes, take a look at them).
Sorry, I had to say this....I'm afraid it bothers me to see inaccurate (at best) information shown as truthful.
I disagree that poverty is only in the eye of the beholder and/or a state of mind--having lived in all three worlds (if there is "first" and "third", there must be a second too, right?), I would say it's also a physical and economic reality that results from the way capital, resources (including infrastructure and knowledge) are distributed around the world, mostly due to historical accidents. The idea that if people in poorer countries really wanted to, they could become a thriving first world economy from which no one has to emigrate to seek greener pastures is a curious one: three quarters of the countries of this world have been trying to do that for a long time, and there are very few success stories (and those are mostly fairly small countries). If someone figured out a reliable way to do it, they should perhaps write it up and publish it--they might win the Nobel Prize for Economics.
Yes, corruption makes it harder to do business, increasing poverty, but it is also a result of poverty. It's one of the ways people survive. It's a vicious circle.