I have been through many different things in my life, and I have made mistakes. It is part of being human. Many of the mistakes I made early in life have directly resulted in my life being what it is today. While I regret the mistakes, there are many parts of it I don’t regret. I would not trade my kids for anything. (no Missy, not even on their worst days, I would only think about it a LONG TIME) I consider myself truly blessed by my children in many ways. Through my son, I have learned patience, interpretation, to value honesty, timing, and to not take myself too seriously. Through my daughter, I have learned to see both sides of a coin, organization, I can dress in something other than polo shirts, I did pass on some good things, and sometimes it is okay to tell people they did something wrong. Both of my kids have taught me that I am more than I thought I was to start with in life. Yet, to look at us, what would you see? A family struggling to survive. I am on medical leave, and have been for almost 8 weeks now. I don’t qualify for assistance because of being a federal employee, but I am not getting a paycheck. My daughter is working 2 jobs, and going to school. My son is working odd jobs, and temp jobs while trying to find a permanent job in the auto-body industry, and his wife gets a small disability income because of her learning disability, while she is trying to be trained enough to be able to find work. Meanwhile, my medical bills though not large thanks to my insurance are still rising, as are our bills, and so does Melissa’s school needs list. I am just between. The doctor is trying to decide if my condition is able to be stabilized or not. It is a birth defect. Basically, it causes my blood pressure to bounce out of control and the more I do, the more it jumps up and down until it triggers something and I pass out completely. It doesn’t take very long to get to that point any more. I am now back to being able to do things at home, but not much before I have to stop at sit back at rest at home. Why do I bring this up? Well, I have recently had it suggested that I must not be following God, if I am in this situation. If I were a better steward and following all of God’s commands, I would be comfortable and fine. The person that said this? A minister. So my question to you, my friends is this, Can a person be poor, and undergoing financial hardships and still be following God’s Will?
Let me say that I am not easily offended. I do not consider agreement a personal attack, I would consider it a reason for me to consider what I am missing in my life. But I suggest to you that you would also think about what you are saying about things without thinking when you make judgments on people when you don’t realize how it affects those around you too.




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Criticism such as is this, however metaphyscially correct (re: "as a man thinketh in his heart so it is with him."), is clearly inapporpriate and exhibits a distinct lack of compassion for the "Catch-22" that a "fall into a knowledge of good and evil" occassions. Yes, what I thnk about a lot invariably will show up in my life and world. Simplistically speaking, this means if I want to change my world I must change my mind by changing what I think.
However, the problem is how do I think positively in the face of negative circumstances that constantly engage my attention. Yes, that is where faith comes in. But beyond faith (which the mind is a master of subverting), the only permanent answer is to change my identity from "who I think am" (who I have been programmed and conditioned to believe I am) to who I am in Christ/the Mind of God -- the one who can say without any doubt, "God loves me as I Am").
Although, I can't deny the apparent poverty of my present circumstance (which came from previously conditioned thought about myself), I can, however, refuse to entertain it; I can stop thinking and worrying about it, and that by "staying my mind" on what the Bible says I Am in Spirit and Truth instead.
As such, the only permanent way to change my mind is to change my centeral focus from "me, myself and I," to "I as I Am" in Christ, in the Mind of God" (what the Bible says about who I Am). And so allow God's Promises for my Life to manifest outwardly ) (Note: this is not a matter of "me, myself and I" creating anything, but simply accepting and releasing what always already is my Divine Birthright).
In short, I have to get out of my own way (human way of thinking – knowing in part; through a mirror darkly) and into God's Way (where I die to myself as I think and so know directly, "face to face," even as I am know; know myself as I Am in Christ.
"Thinking about a problem only further reinforces your belief in it as ultimately true and real – focus on the Ultimate Truth of You Being as One with God in Christ, and the "outer picture" will change to match the "Inner Truth."
Yours I Am in Christ's Love -- Rich
"41: Jesus sat down opposite the place where the offerings were put and watched the crowd putting their money into the temple treasury. Many rich people threw in large amounts. 42: But a poor widow came and put in two very small copper coins, worth only a fraction of a penny.
43: Calling his disciples to him, Jesus said, "I tell you the truth, this poor widow has put more into the treasury than all the others. 44: They all gave out of their wealth; but she, out of her poverty, put in everything—all she had to live on."
If what your minister said was true, then why was Jesus supportive of the widows "pitiful" offering? Why was she not frowned upon because she was impoverished and all her income and savings that she offered was only a very small fraction of what the wealthy were offering.
I disagree with your minister. Jesus himself was not a financially wealthy man.
My mother became an atheist after my father died. It made her hideous. ANd to tell your children that there is no God, that there is no reason for living or life, well, that is telling them that they are nothing but a spot on the wall. It's abuse. I don't belielve in Religion, I believe in God. The highest of high. And that we are all connected in this wild ride.
Peg Nalita A and Lynn A are urging me to move to a more gentle side. I always am with ladies. No mind because I will answer your question straight up
What is the non-theological definition of "minister"?
Look it up in the dictionary but skip the definition related to the person. I am talking about ACTION what to minister means, what a minister is supposed to do.
Do you need a minister to tell you "You're bad and you should go to hell so go there?"
Lisa, my point is that your minister missed his calling. he should have been a prophet of doom
your minister is serving the right god (for him) and the god he serves is Satan.
Lisa name me ONE time, just one time when our Lord saw somebody sick and he said to them ,
I'm not healing you. you DESERVED it.
I'm not that much up on the Bible but I already know Jesus did not do that. I think it says something like he healed all types of sickness, illness, disease or something like that.
Your minister is POISON, Boo. Run from him like you would run from the devil
Boo, run for your life! I'm serious.
"Can a person be poor, and undergoing financial hardships and still be following God's Will?"
Was Christ wealthy?
What more "proof" do we need of whether material possessions have jack to do with faith?
No, someone in that story is not right in their faith, but it is not you.
God does not cause our pains, our ills, or misfortunes. He lifts us up when we are down. The fact that you can see all your many blessings is all the testiment to faith that there is. Our Father in heaven loves us, He would not have us suffer as you would not have your children suffer. I have had multiple health problems all my life, I have stood at deaths door on many occasions, I have been so poor I couldn't afford to eat but I praise his name ! I haven't always had what I want but I have always had what I needed. My life is a miracle and everyday I live it I will sing it loud. Jesus said "It is harder for a rich man to get to the kingdom of heaven than a camel to get through the eye of a needle. I know it's hard when we go through hard times, I know it's hard when we suffer. But I promise you one day when this day is past, you will praise him for the difficulties and the lessons learned and for lifting you up and placing you back on solid ground. If we have everything, if our lives were pain free, would we understand suffering? We must understand it to be able to pass our gifts on, it what we do. We take the gifts the Lord has given us and we pass them on. I have been given many gifts by my father, I choose to share. Shame on that person who said that terrible thing to you. God Bless you and keep the faith.
I think he was trying to tell you to not worry, have faith in Father instead.
If your conscience is clear and you've already asked God to forgive anything in your past...then he has done so and this is not a punishment for those sins. However, sometimes our trials are brought to us to teach us something or to prepare us for a path we can't see at this point in our lives.
It could be that in 10 years you will be able to pass on what you've learned from this hard time to help someone else - and therefore it is for a good purpose. Keep praying and listening for his guidance on how to take actions to heal and to help others around you. Sometimes helping others, no matter how slight, is the best medication for our own ills.
I'm sorry to hear you are going thru this rough spot in your life.
Does being poor and having problems to deal with mean you've missed God's will, that you aren't following him??
Gosh no!
If you look at the Bible itself you see how many of the apostles themselves as well as many other Christians struggled.
Life can be hard, it often is. For me, the point is that I don't walk thru it alone, Jesus walks with me and that is a lot. Does he always rescue us? Sometimes he does, often we just walk faithfully in His path and know that we are not alone here.
He does feel our fears, our pains and sometimes deliverance happens.
But that isn't the greatest miracle to me.
I'm sorry you had that run in with that minister.
I think that if this is how he judges whether people are following God this minister wouldn't have thought much of the Apostle Paul who rarely had anything of his own.
I hope your situation improves and may God continue to bless you and your family!
While examining your outlook on your current position and possibly doing a review of your faith couldn't hurt you any. I am not a fan of the whole "you are punished by a wrathful god for not being a mindless sheep" theory. I am poor in cash, and many say that I am one of the most "Christlike" people they know. I am constantly trying to improve my lot in life, but I don't fret or complain about not having more except to dream about what I could accomplish if I had more. (It's called having dreams and hopes)
God wants you to be happy. Be there trials and tribulation, deity is there for you to hold you up when you stumble, and is by your side to support you during both the good times and the bad.
Mayhaps the preacher who told you this thinks that all of those drug-addicted, drunken movie stars are living as Gos wants them to, and so are being rewarded for their good faith? Pshaw!
Even those who aim to teach the faith can be led astray. We are all only human, and thus, terribly flawed. No matter what anyone says, your relationship with deity is between you and your God, no one else. If you feel you are lacking, then correct the problem.
I don't know about what your minister says, but you have a loving, caring family, and your health is improving slightly. That sure sounds like plenty of blessing to me.
May your blessings multiply.
1And as Jesus passed by, he saw a man which was blind from his birth.
2And his disciples asked him, saying, Master, who did sin, this man, or his parents, that he was born blind?
3Jesus answered, Neither hath this man sinned, nor his parents: but that the works of God should be made manifest in him.
No where in the Bible does it say that being poor is a sin. The Bible references poor in many different ways; which doesn't always mean financial sercurity or having earthly materials. A person could be poor in spirit and God can lift these people up if they just ask. As believers we are to reach to the poor and help with whatever their needs are.
Blessings
Your minister is wrong.
There's been many people both in the Bible and in modern times that have been financially poor but were used by God because of their Great Faith. Mother Theresa comes to mind. Would your minister had looked her in the eyes and told her she would have more money if only she demonstrated more faith.
I try not to judge individual myself, I much rather prefer leaving that task to God but occasionally I will offer up what I believe about something or someone based on the facts received. In this case, I bet that one of your minister's favorite subject matter for sermons is tithing. Just a guess.
That's why it is not surprising what was said to you, Lisa.
what do I usually put in my quotes everyday ? ? ?
Life is what you make it.
I believe in being positive.
Things happen for a reason and negative things that happen make you
stronger.
I think the minister was way off base with his remark.......