I have been flagged by the community (other)
I looked up what I could have done, and I guess maybe it looks like I am soliciting. I wrote a note to gather to ask what I did and how can I correct it. I feel a deep sense of shame. I am sorry if I lead anyone to think that I was scamming for money or what not. I am sooo embarrassed. I still don't know the actual reason, but if anyone has a clue, please tell me. Should I take my email off and information about pay pal? I only put that there because people were asking. I didn't know how to deal with that, and at the same time, I have learned that if help is offered in dire times, don't say no. However I do think that I need to discompose that article. It will take a long time to get over the sense of 'I am bad' and also a sense of 'what is it to someone else who hasn't followed the story of the horses and dogs.'
Oh well, it has been done. Any feed back would sure be welcomed!




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that got flagged. Don't know how I could
be of any help to you my dear friend,sorry.
Your Friend
~Barbara~
I'm sorry this happened. The article looked great to me. Maybe it will all get straightened out soon. Good luck.
For the current situation, write to Gather again and ask them what you need to do. Other than that, I don't know. Sorry.
Memories ~ Angel at Grand Central
Please don't feel embarrassed though. If individuals send you a private message wanting to know how to help then can't you answer each message and do it privately? After all they asked. Maybe that's the way to do it.
I was wondering if they have food pantries near you. That could help you with getting some food and a little bit of scraps for the dogs. I don't know what to say about the horses though.
Try to hang in there PeggyAnn.
But hey, PeggyAnn, I bet you aren't really "anybody" on this site until you have your own private little flaggers who follow you around flagging everything for any reason or for no reason, at all. At least, I get that impression reading the "Elitists" whose wit entertains me. ;)
Don't let it get you down.
Hope you'll join my group at : Gatherers Gallery
We are a non-judgemental group.
if this is about not being able to feed the animals
i really think horses must be expensive to keep, then it is best to get someone to take over, i really do.
i thought that if i ever find myself unable to pay for a vet bill, though i made a deal with the vet in the past, i would seriousy reconsider keeping pets.
it is harsh but reality is that they depend on us, and i try not to cut corners.
my dog gets expensive food but it is a priority, if i ever reach the stage and i hope i dont , i will think what is best for the animal. i say it because i think sometimes how much money animals cost and how important they are. someone once questioned my decision to get a dog. i would get another and another however since my budget is limited, i limit myself.
i know it does not sound nice but does it make sense? i am not sure what it is about but if it is about you struggeling to support the animals, perhaps it is time to reconsider it for their sake and yours. for the time being.
dont bother apologizing, worry about yourself and take care of yourself and your dependents the best way you can. if this is against the law to ask for money, find some organizations, church , animals place,something, dont give up! much strength , and sorry if i sound like i am preaching, i know we can all be in a dire situation , without an exception , so keep your head high
i meant keep trying but realize that if things get tough you need to find plan B, rehome the pets , till you are better