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Birdie Jaworski
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July 30, 2006 How Gather Members Can Hijack the Media and Change the World
July 05, 2007 08:31 AM EDT
(Updated: July 05, 2007 08:40 AM EDT)
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My Avon district sales manager sat next to me at my kitchen table three years ago. She wore soft caramel lipstick to match her Asian print jacket, a shade just two tones shy of her sculpted bouffant. "Birdie," she said, her index pointing first to her lips, then mine, "every woman buys lipstick. Your new Avon business manual shows you how to sell the exact type of lipstick your customer needs. Here, take a look." I glanced at the open blue binder, at a chart where you can match up hydration versus long-wearing versus affordability, ingredients, lifestyle, you name it. Each of the core Avon lipsticks was dissected, outlined, splayed on the page like an alien anatomy diagram. I nodded my head as if I beheld the sacred Tibetan Book of the Dead. I made a mental note to memorize these facts FIRST! And I did. I did. Three years later, I could still cite the Lipstick Mantras, spill them into the palm of a questioning customer. Avon thinks Avon Knows Best, but let me tell you a secret: My customers knew a hell of a lot more. I learned what lipsticks have staying power, which leave tell-tale stains on crisp white men's collars, which provide the most bang for the buck. My new Lipstick Mantras were based on my customers' needs. Not everything Avon needs to know or ought to know can be found in a focus group. But I was one lone Avon Lady wolf, howling at the internet moon. Even when one voice has an audience, it's easy to discount that voice. Even with multiple voices, if these voices occur at different times and disparate places and in varying manners, there's a diminished impact. It's easy, simple, for these disconnected voices to be shushed, swept under the bed. Focus and large numbers are what has impact. Already, there are some blogging coalitions that provide some kind of focus. All of these groups gather bloggers who share some interest - be it an anti-war agenda, a love of a particular musical artist, an opinion on abortion, environmental issues. By sharing a concern or compliment, bloggers can combine their individual power into something bigger, something with teeth, a snarl. This is the new media version of letter-writing campaigns. There are also incredible Social Networks such as this one - Gather - as well as MySpace and LiveJournal where word of mouth travels faster than wildfire. These networks have a domino effect, amplifying one person's yowls with the Amens of thousands. But imagine something even more powerful than discreet coalition entities and roving social networks. For example, imagine that some non-profit Meta Organization was formed with the task of identifying major concerns and issues to particular groups who have a presence on the internet through blogs and other forms of comment and criticism. The mission of this non-profit would be to provide focal points involving temporal placement - meaning a specific time - for issues and concerns of organized and unorganized groups that have not had the means to collectively focus their opinions in such a sharp and global way. It should be a temporal focus, because everything happens in time, and you are harnessing power, focusing the comments and opinions of large numbers just like light, in one place in one time. Like light, it would cause heat, shine brilliance, get attention. Imagine if this Meta Organization had no personal agenda outside of organizing those writers' focus. Imagine if it selected a day that month where it was announced that all interested parties will focus on one particular issue and will put forth their most potent thoughts, serious concerns, most constructive comments and solutions on that one day, complete with links to all participating parties. Focusing and targeting that product or service or social concern would cause an instant revolution! What company would want to be in such crosshairs? What politician? What interest group? Imagine thousands, tens of thousands, perhaps millions of bloggers opining on that day's topic. Major media influencers, whether corporate or government or other large institutions, have always had the power to pick and choose when and where and how to create a buzz around what's of interest to them. But now the opportunity is here for thousands and millions of disparate individuals to have the same kind of power to focus - through an organized network - on things that are of concern to them. For the first time, bringing about some balance between the powers that be and the powers that have always been but could not be easily heard is possible. As a mom, ex-Avon Lady, woman and a blogger, I sometimes write about my dissatisfaction with the media's Perfect Woman Ideal. I know other women blog about this, too, and try to shout into the wilderness that they are unique, beautiful, forces of perfect nature. All of our disconnected voices haven't made a big dent in the way things are done. But I can imagine participating in such a Meta Organization, where one day the focus is on the unhealthy media portrayal of beauty issues. Imagine fifty thousand bloggers - on the same day! - blogging about specific companies and their product literature and magazine advertising, pointing out the unobtainable standards, the way the language used in those advertisements is at odds with the images shown. Would companies listen to fifty thousand writers who yelled all at once? Would the journalistic community? Would something happen? Hell. Yes. With Gather's fast-growing membership, it's not out of bounds to imagine a network of one hundred thousand writers who unite on specific days to cover a specific topic. It's time for the bloggers of the world to combine forces. We'd be unstoppable. Let me know in comments below if you're interested in participating.
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Comments: 81
There are so many places that need a ~smack~ for the way they portray women... when we're done with that issue, can we move onto other women's issues? There are so many.
that is the most eloquent way I can tell you I am interested. Great idea.
(and btw: i can only think of a couple of women i know who wear lipstick, so stick that in your pipe, avon!)
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I believe it is the first of the kind of group you ar referring to.
Eric
Eric, I just checked out your group - it looks like a great read, but it's different than the idea I am proposing. What I'm talking about is gathering a group of interested writers/bloggers and posting on one day, each month, so that it is all happening at once, on a different and specific chosen topic each time, inside and outside of Gather. So that the voices become one howl heard at once. It's the time factor that makes this potentially something that can't be ignored.
Still, would you consider joining dtom.gather.com?
What a great way to showcase the real needs in our country, be it political, health or a national threat. A fantastic way to showcase the struggles in not only America but in the nation as well.
COUNT ME IN!
I am not a writer, but as a reader, I can come read your articles, make comments and help disseminate the word out to get more people involved!
I'm in on this but I think it should be taken a bit further. One day can be forgotten. What if you focused on one topic for an entire month? That way it would have time to build and the media may feel the pressure from it.
I think a month of writing on the perfect woman ideal could include showing women with disabilities! Why couldn't we utilize the self-publishing venues? For example create a calendar (through lulu.com or another self-publishing company) and in it feature 12 women who should be women to look up to. They could be women of all sizes and shapes. There could be poems, etc. I have one I would offer. It is now on tour as a part of traveling theatrical presentation called, Mountain Women Rising. If you're interested let me know.
This calendar could be created before the month began. It could also begun sources of some of the organizations who are doing something!
You have my attention. This is an idea whose time has come!
BNN http://www.bloggernews.net/, is one that does exactly as you are talking about with news commentary bloggers. When I ran my news site, I used them as well.
You are right about the power of this idea, it is a very powerful one and a good idea.
I kept expecting some group to run with the idea, but as of yet, no one is taking advantage of the temporal nature of this idea. One day, one topic, many many blogs. Over and over again. Kind of like World AIDS Day, but once a month.
I thought it would be fun to start on Gather, as a little experiment, and to answer Aniko's question - I'm open to anyone - Gather or not - posting. I don't want to be the "head" of this - I think it should be a distributed intelligence network where the power is decentralized, that will just make it more real and more powerful in its voice.
What would you call it? "I'm sick to death of this and I'm not going to take it anymore!" Wasn't there a movie back when ... where a disgruntled newspaper guy shouted this from his window. Gosh my memory is flabby here ...
One thing you should make participants aware of is the need to generate links. Its a chore for a solo blogger like me but if each member of a large group does a little the hits will come rolling in.
Now guess what? These same three points are just the same for men as well. Yes there are men that are either Intelligent, or Mediocre, or PIA's just like there are women. So I guess that makes us the same then.
Why not pick one day each month to pick on between 28-31 topics. A year of this and some attention may be gathered.
I say you finally have to begin. I also agree with Birdie that one person should not be carrying the load.
Okay, I will commit to creating the calendar because I think it has potential. What I would like are suggestion for the 12 women who should be featured and 12 strong pieces of writing dealing with a positive view of what a real woman is.
Please contact me if you have a suggestion. It does not have to be someone on Gather
Help me find one and I will write.
Build it and they will come? Something like that.
=)
You've got brains Birdie dear !
That being said, I wonder how corporate men would feel about views of their naked backsides being used to sell everything from tires and cars to movies and diet products? Yeah? Well, women don't care much for it either. ;-) Especially when the photos are air brushed into fantasy land.
I have no objection to us starting close to home and moving outward into the world.
Count me in.
I'd be glad to add my opinion in areas I feel strongly about (our decayed electoral process, global population control, America's self-imposed ignorance, to name a few) but although I agree that media paints an unrealistic picture of the perfect woman, that particular subject is not one I'm excercised enough to expend much energy on. But do keep me in the loop and I'll contribute when I can put my heart into my words. Thanks for thinking of me.
I'd be happy to partcipate on issues that I feel strongly about. When will we begin the process of nominating topics? Drop me a line if you need help.
You joined my pre Simulationist group, and I was grateful for your magnificent voice and point of view amongst us.....just having your stellar presence as a pre Sim means saying that we don´t have to have more of the same bored, self-referencing, bored and jaded postmodern culture spoonfed to us as listless consumers, we can create the sim worlds of the future without just having our consciousness created by them.
In turn, I would gladly support and be a member of any group that you decide to use to harness the incredible human energy and will of the blog.
Good for you, Birdie! Keep imagining those 100,000 bloggers blogging on a specific topic, and soon it will become a million, then ten million.
I am with you.
We can all propose topics, and majority vote will decide which topics we take on. The body image issue was just an illustration for the sake of the essay. I'm open to any and all ideas.
I'm just too damned independent and free thinking. Have always been and its given me the greatest life.
I'm the one who at a meeting says "I can see that you all agree but it seems that you haven't considered...etc etc"
But I'll cheer you on from the sdelines.
Seems nearly everyone has personal agendas and spout that on their blogs. Will they all actually focus on the selected monthly item? And once that item is selected, will there be one focus or opinion that will be agreed on or will there be 50,000 separate and different opinions?
What am I missing here?
Still interested.
Stephen
Keep me updated I'm definately interested.
I'm definately in.
Mission statement?
How about "just effing do it!"
It was the only missin statement any of the teams I led were ever given or ever needed.
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I think your right! Count me in for sure.
an interesting idea. how would you publicize this, and to whom?
Yay!!!!!
I just wanted to say I am finally going through what is now under 7,400 pieces of gather new mail that is in my inbox on here. So with that in mind I have finally come to a piece of mail that was addressed to me in regards this article submission you have created to share with the gather community. Thank you for taking the time and sharing your piece with us here at gather. :o)
And as well Merry Christmas... and Happy Holidays... :o)