by Miz Lynn aka/BooBoo
Member since:
February 9, 2006

Goodbye Daddy

June 26, 2007 11:12 AM EDT
views: 107 | rating: 10/10 (32 votes) | comments: 44
 

Just a short article to inform my friends and connections I'm still in Minnesota.


My trip was to be one of happiness, that being to attend my son's college graduation. While here I decided to make my usual summer journey to visit my parents on one of Minnesota's 22,000 lakes.


The day after arriving at my parents home, Dad took ill complaining of stomach problems, I advised him to see his Doctor, which he did. He was admitted into the local hospital but was transported after five days via ambulance to Rochester, MN (Mayo Clinic).


Surgery was performed to correct an ulcer, but CT scans showed a large lymphotic mass growing around the aorta near his heart. My Dad also had CLL (chronic lymphocytic leukemia). He had been told he was in remission. Guess not.


Early Sunday morning (June 24th) I let my Daddy go..As I said my last goodbyes tears were streaming down my cheeks. I knew he was going to a better place, no more pain, no more suffering, only happiness. Even though I know these things my heart is still breaking, he was my one and only Daddy. I miss him so much.


Dad was also a member of Gather, he didn't write or comment on anyone elses articles but mine...I'll miss his personal, encouraging comments, his hugs, his laughter, and his “Love, Dad”.


I haven't had time to comment or write these past three weeks, the only writing I've done is Dad's obituary. It is as follows;

Marvin D. Berg age 82 of Alexandria, formerly of Sanborn passed away Sunday, June 24, 2007 at St. Marys Hospital in Rochester after a long and courageous battle with CLL (chronic lymphocytic leukemia). Funeral services will he held at 10:30 a.m. Thursday at Trinity Lutheran Church in Willow Lake Township. Visitation will be held Wednesday from 4:00 - 8:00 p.m. at the Redwood Valley Funeral Home in Redwood Falls, and will continue one hour prior to services at the church on Thursday. Interment is in the Trinity Lutheran Cemetery. The Redwood Valley Funeral Home is handling the arrangements.

Marvin D. Berg was born June 10, 1925 in Mapleton, MN, the son of Albert J. & Julia E. (Black) Berg. He graduated as valedictorian of his class from Wabasso High School in 1943. Marvin was united in marriage to his high school sweetheart, Kathryn M. McCorkell in Pocatello, Idaho on October 18, 1943, and celebrated their 63rd year of marriage last fall. Marvin entered the U.S. Navy in 1944 and served as a radar man in WWII. They farmed in Willow Lake Township for over 30 years where they raised their 6 children. Marvin retired in 1979, and the couple moved into their lake home on Lake Reno, near Alexandria, MN. He was a member of the Trinity Lutheran Church in Willow Lake Township near Sanborn, MN and served as church organist, trustee, financial secretary and elder for many years. Marvin enjoyed fishing, goose hunting with his sons, gardening, emailing family and friends, keeping up with current news events, watching the Minnesota Twins, and spending time with his wife, children, grandchildren, great grandchildren, neighbors & friends. Marvin was especially proud of all his descendants.

Marvin is survived by his wife Kathryn (McCorkell) Berg of Alexandria; children: Marvin A. Berg and wife Diana of Alexandria, Lynn A. Chaney and husband Michael of Rogers, AR, Bruce L. Berg and wife Torry of Sanborn and Jillain J. Gramstad and husband Warren of Sanborn; 19 grandchildren: Kelly Berg, Kristin Berg-Gudmundson, Eric J. Berg, Nathan Berg, Dana Berg, Jennifer (Berg) Burtman, Heidi (Berg) Seppelt, Ryan A. Berg, Marcie (Berg) Schlacta, Christine (Muenchow) Palmer, Maree (Muenchow) Herder, William C. Muenchow IV, Jesse L. Berg, Travis D. Berg, Tyler Berg, Nichole Berg, Tara L. Gramstad, Randee M. (Gramstad) Krueger and Katie Gramstad; 21 great grandchildren; brothers: Mark C. Berg of Seattle, WA and Tyrone Berg of White Bear Lake, MN; and many other relatives and friends. He is preceded in death by his parents, sons Brian B. and Randy A., grandson Jordan, and son in law William C. Muenchow III. Blessed be his memory.

I quite don't know when my life will return to normal, right now my heart is grieving...

 

 

 
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Comments: 44

Tonia, who hugs trees G. Jun 26, 2007, 11:29am EDT
Lynn - my thoughts are with you. Such a terribly hard thing to endure though I'm sure it is a comfort and a blessing to be with your family right now. The obituary spoke of a life well lived, filled with love, family and friends. The grief will pass and you will be able to celebrate all the gifts that came from having him as your Daddy.
Μόףףý ● ķ ~ Jun 26, 2007, 11:32am EDT
((((((((((((Hugs)))))))))))) Lynn, my thoughts are with you and your family. You know we love you and miss you when you're away.
Janet H. Jun 26, 2007, 11:34am EDT
I am so sorry about the loss of your father.
barb w. Jun 26, 2007, 11:37am EDT
Oh, Lynn...I am so very sorry. I read the entire article and it sounds like he was an extraordinary man.
Janet Somewhere Up On The Mount Jun 26, 2007, 11:44am EDT
((((( HUGS )))))) Lynn, thoughts and prayers going up for you and yours from Pittsburgh. I am so sorry about the loss of your Dad.
Take all the time you need. Gather and your Gather friends will be here for you when you need them.
my heart goes out to you, lynn. you are loved and truly missed.
Angie O. Jun 26, 2007, 11:57am EDT
Lynn - I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your dad. I lost mine in 98 and I know what a void this creates. Even as adult women, we are still "daddy's girl". I will keep you and yours in my prayers. Hold tight to your fond memories of your dad.
Apryl Just Apryl Jun 26, 2007, 12:08pm EDT
Lynn, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Take time and grieve, it is an important step. Take care of you and know we love you.
Hugs~
April L.
brenda c. Jun 26, 2007, 12:17pm EDT
Lynn, i know we are all sorry for your loss. My dad passed in 1979, but i still think about him. In reading your father's obituary it seems he had a full and loving life and family. Grieve, and don't surpress it. When it's all out reflect on the good things and times. After the funeral it's ok to laugh and remember the funny things your dad did and said. Stay close to your mom and surround her with love and happy thoughts.
Sue * Jun 26, 2007, 12:25pm EDT
Oh, I am so sorry for your loss. Your dad must have been a wonderful daddy to even come on Gather to support his little girl. Please know that there are so many people here who care about you, and are praying for you and your family.
Wilma M. Jun 26, 2007, 12:34pm EDT
I am so sorry for your loss. It sounds like your father was a wonderful person. How neat that he came on Gather just for you. I'm glad you were able to be there with him the last few days. Prayers for you and your family.
Randy- Being true to myself Jun 26, 2007, 12:35pm EDT
Lynn, tears followed those words to know that a wonderful friend was grieving. You had a wonderful Daddy, and it is hard to let go. With all my heart and friendship, I send you my prayers and more hugs than could ever be displayed.

I wish there was a way that we could take the pain away from those that are special to us, and I think you know that I would.

Your halo is shining brightly for the love you have given to so many, and hopefully, some of that love has returned back to you. Prayers go out for you and your family, and thoughts are close to my heart that the healing will come with wonderful memories, and smiles of all the good times.
Jennifer Oliver Jun 26, 2007, 1:01pm EDT
Oh, Lynn, my heart is breaking over your loss. You are wrapped in love by all who love you during this time and for always. What a beautiful obituary you wrote that honors your father...he sounds like he's led an incredibly blessed life. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
Serina Matteson Jun 26, 2007, 1:54pm EDT
Lynn, this was a very beautiful obituary you wrote for you father. I know he would be honored. Know that he is watching over you now. I wish I could hug you and help absorb your pain. I love you Lynn and miss you. You and your family are in my thought and prayers as you grieve and lay a wonderful man down to rest.
Debbie G. Jun 26, 2007, 2:55pm EDT
Lynn, I am so sorry to hear the news. You and your family will be in my prayers duing this difficult time. There is no one way or right way to get through this pain. Be gentle with yourself and each other. Hugs to you.
Lisa Frost Jun 26, 2007, 3:56pm EDT
You have my sympathy at your loss. It is always so hard to lose a parent and a friend. I understand all too well {{{{{{HUGS}}}}}} May God grant you His Peace.
William Dotani Jun 26, 2007, 5:36pm EDT
Most likely your dad would not want you to feel too much sorrow and I'm quite sure his wish would be for your happiness. I lost my dad in '91 and it still hurts, but I honor him by living a full life. May God comfort you and those that loved your dad.
I wish you peace at this time of loss.
Lynn G. Jun 26, 2007, 6:11pm EDT
My sympathy on the loss of your dad. I remember quite clearly how I felt when my dad died; a daughter holds those memories of Dad close to her heart, always.
I hope your memories bring some comfort at this challenging time.

If you are in the Twin Cities before you leave, let me know ... we can connect.

Hugs and love,
Lynn G.
June M Jun 26, 2007, 6:34pm EDT
((((BIG HUGS))))


Lynn...so sorry about your Dad. His goodness shines from his picture! I'll bet you get your sense of humor and fun from him. He will always live in your heart, and watch over you during your life.


Give your Mom my love and a big hug. This is going to be a very hard time for her and she needs lots of companionship over the next few months. Luckily you have family close by who can keep her busy.


I love you Lynn. Have a safe trip home.


.
tomi r. Jun 26, 2007, 6:54pm EDT
Lynn, you are in my thoughts.
My condolences to you, Lynn.
~~ Sarina ~~ Jun 26, 2007, 8:20pm EDT
My thoughts are with you Lynn. Huggers to you.
Carol Lloyd Jun 26, 2007, 9:43pm EDT
may he always be remembered for a blessing
Michael Hawkins Jun 26, 2007, 10:43pm EDT
Time is the only healer.
Wendy F. Jun 27, 2007, 5:36am EDT
Once I am again I am sorry to hear of your dad's home going . You sure had a wonderful dad. Take care of yourself and considered yourself hugged !!
Karolyn Q. Jun 27, 2007, 6:15am EDT
My condolences to you and your family on the loss of your dad. It is never easy to lose a parent. He sounds like he was a wonderful person and a proud father. My best to you always.
Anne Marie A. Jun 27, 2007, 10:02am EDT
He sounds like his was a wonderful man, husband and father. I am sorry for the pain you feel because of the loss of you father. You are in my thought an prayers. Blessings and hugs
Corina Carrasco Jun 28, 2007, 12:52am EDT
I'm so sorry you lost him. Remember that he will live on, inside of your heart and your mind, for a long, long time. Take care of yourself.
jessie voigts Jun 29, 2007, 11:15am EDT
oh, lynn, i am so sorry for your family's great loss. please know that our thoughts are with you. HUGS.
Christine P. Jun 30, 2007, 8:10am EDT
We will forever miss Grandpa/Dad Mom. Still doesn't seem quite real yet. LY
Val G. Jul 2, 2007, 3:45am EDT
Lynn,
I'm sorry to hear of your loss. I'm trying to catch up on some things here at gather.
Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. I know it's very difficult to lose a parent or anyone so close to you. Your Dad must have been so proud of you to join here and comment on your articles. How sweet. I know you will miss him.
Nina W. Jul 3, 2007, 7:44pm EDT
sorry to hear of your loss thanks for sharing I remember how I felt when my Dad died noone could ever replace him
{{{Lynn}}}
I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad.
This is a very hard time. i know, My mom died almost 3 years ago.
There is a huge hole inside that no one else can fill now that he is gone.
It is going to be hard but there is more. One step at a time, one day at a time.
I'm praying for you and Christine and your families. Grief is such a wicked, cruel pain.
Hang on to your hope.
You believe and know where he is.
Through this hard time, Jesus is walking with you, hurting with you, crying with you.
You are not alone. He cares and he's given you lots of people who love you and care too.
Thanks for sharing what you wrote for you Dad.
sheryl r. Jul 4, 2007, 11:40am EDT
lynn, i know the feeling. i am sorry about your Dad.I grieve still for mine and he has been gone for 5 years on the 13th of this month.My prayers go out to you and your family.
Jai S. Jul 4, 2007, 11:04pm EDT
Dear Lynn;

Please accept my heart felt condolences on the loss of your dad. looks like he led a full and vigorous life till the end. I pray that the good Lord gives you sufficient Grace and Peace to endure this loss. My your pain gradually turns into endearing memories of him.
God Bless
Diane M. Jul 5, 2007, 1:07pm EDT
Lynn - I'm so sorry about your loss. I will keep you and your family in prayer.
Kathryn E. Jul 8, 2007, 7:16pm EDT
So sorry about your loss, Lynn..
Amanda "middle of nowhere" C. Jul 10, 2007, 8:57pm EDT
What a lovely tribute. Thank you for sharing it with us. KNow that you are in our thoughts and prayers. It is good to see you back on gather.
Tanya P. Jul 12, 2007, 3:10pm EDT
I'm sorry for your loss of his physical presence. I'm sure he'll touch in with you through spirit. You wrote a beautiful obituary. Wish I could ease your pain.
Shaunee C. Dec 17, 2007, 2:21am EST
Bless your heart Lynn. I know he is better now in heaven.
Susan V. Jul 20, 2008, 10:02pm EDT
So sorry about your dad!

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