For those of you who don't know, I have been a single parent for 8 years, tried internet dating then, have had 1 "serious" realtionship in that time and am trying the internet thing again.
So, on one site that I'm on I get 5 "matches" a day (only). Somehow we meet each others' requirements. My #1 requirement is "divorced or widowed". I don't want someone separarted who may go back. I don't want someone who can't understand my kids are #1. Sorry, but that's the truth. I don't really care about your religion as long as you don't try to convert me. You believe what finds you solace, and I do the same. My basic requirement is the stated above.
So, I've weeded through some (no, I won't send naked pics, or do a 3 way, or have sex as our first date) and I think I finally have a first date. We're meeting for coffee tomorrow after work.
I'm nervous. I tend to freeze up in these situations. He seems like a nice man, but I've been called cold. How do I get through this?