Life questions that boggle the mind...I have a...

Have you ever had times that you just seemed overwhelmed by your life in general? When there seemed to be more questions than answers?

Well, I am having such a time. Before I "retired" I could avoid these days by focusing on my work...perhaps that's why I was a workaholic. I kid you not; I really believe t hat was a contributing factor. I felt guiltless for avoiding certain issues because I was just too busy with more "important things".

But now, well let's just say "I'm not that busy anymore!" I have no airtight alibi or excuse...so do I have to deal with issues I have ignored for years. I guess so...I'm out of excuses!

"What is this person talking about?" you ask. Well, here's a few of my questions:

1) Does my vote really count or should I do more?

2) If I want a friend, I have to be a friend...am I willing to commit to being a friend?

3) Who should I hold myself accountable to?

4) Am I too tired to vacuum or do I just hate vacuuming?

5) Is world hunger my problem?

6) Can one person make a difference?

7) Do I have talent for creating or am I deceiving myself? Am I willing to risk my vanity to find out?

Catch my drift? I guess the importance for determining my answers to these seemingly mundane questions is up to me. However, I seem to be increasingly burdened and unable to avoid them.

I would appreciate opinions, observations or additional questions that you may have. Should I be asking myself whether I have too much time on my hands thus think too much? Or better yet, does anyone know a good psychiatrist? LOL

Peace,

Bren

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dee-dee Wishes you the best life has to offer S. Jun 20, 2007, 11:44pm EDT

lol i think we at some time in our life we are face with these guestions and more frienship usually takes two or else someone is getting the shorter end of the deal that just my opion. these are good one's for that "" to my friend with the guestions tonight,you are talented for sure, i like to believe one person could matter, about are vote well is collage we learn a lot about that voting my friend you do know the answer to that, hungry well does God touch your heart with these guestions, if so than God does want you to step up to the plate my friends thanks.

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Brandi G. Jun 20, 2007, 11:48pm EDT

*grin* I think they'd make great 10 minute free write topics! Mind if I steal a couple??

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Bonnie C. Jun 21, 2007, 12:42am EDT

Great article! I have to agree with you on some points! PS Every vote counts!!!

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Nana to Seven Cutiepies Jun 21, 2007, 1:20pm EDT

Very thought provoking article. I always feel as if I should be doing more, but how can I possibly?

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Tara R. Jun 21, 2007, 1:24pm EDT

I strongly believe that one person can make a difference.

We will never know our true potential if we are not willing to take risks. Don't let fear hold you back from opportunities that you may never see again.

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Sheila Deeth Jun 21, 2007, 3:57pm EDT

Just read an article about friendship, so #2 is on my mind. As to #7, you created an article out of it. My one is the old "when a tree falls and no one's there to hear it," turned around to if I write and no one reads, did I really create anything?

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Laura H. Jun 21, 2007, 4:19pm EDT

Great thoughts! I may be young, but I can relate.
3) Only hold yourself accountable to you.
4) I'm bored of vacuuming.
6) Can one person make a difference? YES!
7) We all are creative. It's human nature

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dee-dee Wishes you the best life has to offer S. Jun 28, 2007, 1:36pm EDT

Dear sweet Brenda T. hello it is dee-dee you are such a good friend, you give from the heart, you write such wonderful words thank you for looking and watching over me. ten points for my dear friend here at gather where anything is possible. God Bless you and your's. your faithful=loyal friend dee-dee

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Linda R. Jul 1, 2007, 8:59pm EDT

Bren - When I read this article, I felt I could have been writing it myself. I just retired in in January and I've been asking myself most of these same questions! Many people told me I was a workaholic and I probably was to a point, but I ALWAYS would rather have been at work than vacuuming or doing doing any other household work for that matter.

I've always thought I wanted to write, but wasn't sure if I had any talent. Joining Gather has allowed me to start trying a few things. It's very scary! Write a novel??? What makes me think I have the talent to do that?

Now that I have more "time", should I devote that time and my abilities to "saving the world" or just enjoy myself doing the things I never had time to do when I worked full time...reading, crafting, travelling, gardening, etc.

Yes, I know a very good therapist and I have been seeing him for quite awhile...starting about 3 months before I retired. It has helped a lot.

Good luck with your quest for answers. I believe it's a life-long quest, but kiind of fun once you stop feeling totally overwhelmed and scared still!

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Alisa Kerwood Jul 9, 2007, 8:39pm EDT

I like your questions the one I like is # 6 and my answer is yes one person can make a difference I have cerebral palsy and a learning disablity.enjoy

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Carole D. Aug 4, 2007, 4:57am EDT

#2 is an interesting question as it seems that's a personal choice. I think you must first define what "friend" means to you. Some people enjoy their solitude more than they enjoy the company of others. So you must decide for yourself.
Your article here leads me to wonder if you may be something of a perfectionist. If you want to write it seems you surely do have talent - go for it! You have nothing to fear and everything to gain. Good luck in whatever you decide to do. Have fun!

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Vinay Benjamin Aug 4, 2007, 1:00pm EDT

Brenda - this is a wonderful and thought provoking article that you've written for many of us. #6 on the list I like the most - yes, EACH one of us can make a difference if we're sincere about what or who we are addressing.

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Jerrica K. Oct 7, 2007, 12:00pm EDT

Brenda, we are all creative...go ahead and risk your vanity to find out what you're good at! And yes, one person can definitely make a difference...even if you only make a difference in one other person's life, you've made a difference :)

Please read and rate my entry:
A Scandalous Overture

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Mark M. Nov 10, 2007, 12:04am EST

Os Guiness in his book "The Call" talks about the concept of the "audience of One". If you live your life with the awareness that your heavenly Father is always looking in, then the answers to many of life's questions, including many on your list, sort themselves out. Great article Brenda - whoever wrote it must be very creative to have struck so many nerves! -Mark

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