
POETRY CENTRAL Volume 2, Number 5 ~ Poetry of Death ~
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When I was twelve, one of my best friends called me up and said he had cancer. It was the first time I’d heard that word. I didn’t think much of it until about a month later, when he told me they were going to remove his leg. He was dead within six months. It was the first time I’d ever thought deeply about death, much less experiencing it first hand with a friend I had romped around with every day. About a week before he died, I sat on the edge of his bed. He was not doing well; the cancer had spread to his larger bones. He told me to come nearer, motioning that he needed to whisper something. He said that the night before he had seen Jesus Christ, that he’d come into his room and sat on the foot of his bed, just like I was doing, and that he stayed for about an hour. He had a "silver" face, and told him that everything would be all right. I can remember shaking as my friend told me this. We had both been raised in fairly conservative Jewish homes, so this was a striking “revelation” for a twelve year old to hear.
I’ve written several poems about my friend. I often think back on those days, and when I do, I see the events and conversations assemble as a kind of visual poem, a long narrative poem. Not many of us like to think about death, much less about our own demise. Yet there is a real therapeutic and enlightening release in reading and writing about death. For me, reading great poetry on death provides a way to confront its harsh reality at an experiential level. More than that, I can consider it as a tangible eventuality, rather than an abstraction. I know it sounds trite, but it really can be a great positive force to contemplate one’s finitude (at least at a physical level) and for me, a prompt to live life to the fullest every day. As well, it has been a spur for me to think about spiritual or metaphysical powers and realities beyond the normal scope of our temporal experience.
In the short space I have available, I’d like to present a few poems which I’ve found to vividly portray different aspects of death. Many of these you’ll recognize, perhaps some will be a surprise.
A haunting poem by Emily Bronte, entitled A Death-Scene, deals (in the third person) with the passing of a lover, Edward, in which the narrator describes in great denial (13 stanzas of quatrains) what she sees, and yet will not accept, as her beloved dying. Here are s2 and s3:
He cannot leave thee now,
While fresh west winds are blowing,
And all around his youthful brow
Thy cheerful light is glowing!Edward, awake, awake--
The golden evening gleams
Warm and bright on Arden's lake--
Arouse thee from thy dreams!
The poem continues in fitful agony as the description of Edward’s obvious passing expands in greater detail, and finally the narrator herself becomes aware of the unavoidable and ultimate consequence. The final stanza jolts:
So I knew that he was dying--
Stooped, and raised his languid head;
Felt no breath, and heard no sighing,
So I knew that he was dead.
Death, Always Cruel, by Dante Alighieri, doesn’t give death one modicum degree of benefit. It is always cruel:
(s.1 out of 4)
Death, always cruel, Pity's foe in chief,
Mother who brought forth grief,
Merciless judgment and without appeal!
Since thou alone hast made my heart to feel
This sadness and unweal,
My tongue upbraideth thee without relief
William Butler Yeats, in his poem simply entitled, Death, delves into the psychology of death, as one might contemplate and consider beforehand. The irony of the last two lines is a reminder that we really don’t know death at all.
Death (complete poem)
Nor dread nor hope attend
A dying animal;
A man awaits his end
Dreading and hoping all;
Many times he died,
Many times rose again.
A great man in his pride
Confronting murderous men
Casts derision upon
Supersession of breath;
He knows death to the bone
Man has created death.
The famous poem by John Donne, Death be Not Proud, speaks directly to death as a person, in ridicule, proclaiming it has virtually no power at all. In fact, the poet pronounces that death itself shall die.
Death Be Not Proud (complete poem)
DEATH be not proud, though some have called thee
Mighty and dreadfull, for, thou art not so,
For, those, whom thou think'st, thou dost overthrow,
Die not, poore death, nor yet canst thou kill me.
From rest and sleepe, which but thy pictures bee,
Much pleasure, then from thee, much more must flow,
And soonest our best men with thee doe goe,
Rest of their bones, and soules deliverie.
Thou art slave to Fate, Chance, kings, and desperate men,
And dost with poyson, warre, and sicknesse dwell,
And poppie, or charmes can make us sleepe as well,
And better then thy stroake; why swell'st thou then;
One short sleepe past, wee wake eternally,
And death shall be no more; death, thou shalt die.
Who can forget Walt Whitman’s elegiac poem on the death of Abraham Lincoln,O Captain!, My Captain, in which the poet uses the metaphor of a ship approaching its destination as the final passing of the great “father” of the union.
(first stanza)
O Captain! my Captain! our fearful trip is done;
The ship has weathered every rack, the prize we sought is won;
The port is near, the bells I hear, the people all exulting,
While follow eyes the steady keel, the vessel grim and daring.
But O heart! heart! heart!
O the bleeding drops of red!
Where on the deck my Captain lies,
Fallen cold and dead.(last stanza)
My Captain does not answer, his lips are pale and still,
My father does not feel my arm, he has no pulse nor will,
The ship is anchored safe and sound, its voyage closed and done,
From fearful trip the victor ship comes in with object won;
Exult O shores, and ring O bells!
But I, with mournful tread,
Walk the deck my Captain lies,
Fallen cold and dead.
The Lady of Shallot, by Alfred Lord Tennyson, is a marvelous example of Victorian poetry. It is loosely based on Thomas Malory’s Le Morte d’Arthur and recounts the story of a maiden who falls inescapably in love with Sir Lancelot but dies of grief when her love is unrequited. The poem has been the subject of numerous famous paintings, many by the Pre-Raphaelites in the mid-nineteenth century, including the incomparable painting by John Waterhouse of Ophelia pictured below (http://www.johnwilliamwaterhouse.com/).

The poem by Tennyson is 19 stanzas each of nine lines. For a taste, here are the first two lines:
The Lady of Shallot (first two stanzas)
On either side the river lie
Long fields of barley and of rye,
That clothe the wold and meet the sky;
And through the field the road run by
To many-tower'd Camelot;
And up and down the people go,
Gazing where the lilies blow
Round an island there below,
The island of Shalott.
Willows whiten, aspens quiver,
Little breezes dusk and shiver
Through the wave that runs for ever
By the island in the river
Flowing down to Camelot.
Four grey walls, and four grey towers,
Overlook a space of flowers,
And the silent isle imbowers
The Lady of Shalott.
Here’s a wonderful poem by Emily Dickinson, entitled, The Journey, which displays at once the inevitability of death as well as an entrance into a new beginning.
The Journey (complete poem)
Our journey had advanced;
Our feet were almost come
To that odd fork in Being's road,
Eternity by term.
Our pace took sudden awe,
Our feet reluctant led.
Before were cities, but between,
The forest of the dead.
Retreat was out of hope, --
Behind, a sealed route,
Eternity's white flag before,
And God at every gate.
Langston Hughes, in his witty little poem, Wake, gives death very little credence:
Wake (complete poem)
Tell all my mourners
To mourn in red --
Cause there ain't no sense
In my bein' dead.
while Carl Sandberg, in his poem entitled, To a Dead Man, impresses upon the reader the utter finality and inaccessibility of death:
To a Dead Man (complete poem)
Over the dead line we have called to you
To come across with a word to us,
Some beaten whisper of what happens
Where you are over the dead line
Deaf to our calls and voiceless.
The flickering shadows have not answered
Nor your lips sent a signal
Whether love talks and roses grow
And the sun breaks at morning
Splattering the sea with crimson.
I’d love to go on and on, but I have to end this presentation of some selected high spots in poetry dealing with death. Here’s one last poem, however, which is one of my favorites in this genre, again by John Donne. Never was so much said with so few words.
No Man is an Island (complete poem)
No man is an island entire of itself; every man
is a piece of the continent, a part of the main;
if a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe
is the less, as well as if a promontory were, as
well as any manner of thy friends or of thine
own were; any man's death diminishes me,
because I am involved in mankind.
And therefore never send to know for whom
the bell tolls; it tolls for thee.
MEDITATION XVII
Devotions upon Emergent Occasions
John Donne
It would be fun to hear about some of your favorite poems dealing with death, or ones that have influenced you in some way.
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Comments: 141
Another, There is No Death by J. L. Mccreery you did not mention, and Emily Bronte's Last Lines as well.
As a nurse, both in Intensive Care, and Hospice I have known death intimately. I have held many hands at the last, and found your narrative meaningful. Today, with my own health issues I can say that I believe that dealing with the realities of life, death being one of them, better equips us for living fully every moment, and for facing challenges in a manner in keeping with our own philosophies of life.
Meaningful read for me. Thank you.
I think that death is a frequent theme in poetry, but I'm not sure... could it be second only to love? Part of this is because death so defines the human experience. We all have an end to our journeys, and it takes away so many that we love. The other part is the great number of creative people who are more or less "touched," and in being so, sometimes experience the emotional agonies which make them wish for death.
Wonderful classics in your examples, and very well-written, as always.
Thanks for the essay and the links. Brought back a few memories.
Smile.
Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone,
Prevent the dog from barking with a juicy bone.
Silence the pianos and with muffled drum
Bring out the coffin, let the mourners come.
Let aeroplanes circle moaning overhead
Scribbling on the sky the message He is dead.
Put crepe bows round the white necks of the public doves,
Let the traffic policemen wear black cotton gloves.
He was my North, my South, my East and West,
My working week and my Sunday rest,
My noon, my midnight, my talk, my song;
I thought that love would last forever: I was wrong.
The stars are not wanted now; put out every one,
Pack up the moon and dismantle the sun,
Pour away the ocean and sweep up the wood;
For nothing now can ever come to any good.
DEATH IS NOTHING AT ALL
I have only slipped away into the next room
I am I and you are you
Whatever we were to each other
That we are still
Call me by my old familiar name
Speak to me in the easy way you always used
Put no difference into your tone
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow
Laugh as we always laughed
At the little jokes we always enjoyed together
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was
Let it be spoken without effort
Without the ghost of a shadow in it
Life means all that it ever meant
It is the same as it ever was
There is absolute unbroken continuity
What is death but a negligible accident?
Why should I be out of mind
Because I am out of sight?
I am waiting for you for an interval
Somewhere very near
Just around the corner
All is well.
Nothing is past; nothing is lost
One brief moment and all will be as it was before
How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting when we meet again!
Canon Henry Scott-Holland, 1847-1918, Canon of St Paul's Cathedral
Because I Could Not Stop for Death
by Emily Dickinson.
Because I could not stop for Death—
He kindly stopped for me—
The Carriage held but just Ourselves—
And Immortality.
We slowly drove—He knew no haste
And I had put away
My labor and my leisure too,
For His Civility—
We passed the School, where Children strove
At Recess—in the Ring—
We passed the fields of Gazing Grain—
We passed the Setting Sun—
Or rather—He passed Us—
The Dews drew quivering and chill—
For only Gossamer, my Gown—
My Tippet—only Tulle—
We paused before a House that seemed
A Swelling of the Ground—
The Roof was scarcely visible—
The Cornice—in the Ground—
Since then—'tis Centuries—and yet
Feels shorter than the Day
I first surmised the Horses' Heads
Were toward Eternity—
Do Not Go Gentle Into That Good Night
by Dylan Thomas
Do not go gentle into that good night,
Old age should burn and rave at close of day;
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.
Though wise men at their end know dark is right,
Because their words had forked no lightning they
Do not go gentle into that good night.
Good men, the last wave by, crying how bright
Their frail deeds might have danced in a green bay,
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.
Wild men who caught and sang the sun in flight,
And learn, too late, they grieved it on its way,
Do not go gentle into that good night.
Grave men, near death, who see with blinding sight
Blind eyes could blaze like meteors and be gay,
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.
And you, my father, there on that sad height,
Curse, bless, me now with your fierce tears, I pray.
Do not go gentle into that good night.
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.
Cuttings
by Theodore Roethke
This urge, wrestle, resurrection of dry sticks,
Cut stems struggling to put down feet,
What saint strained so much,
Rose on such lopped limbs to a new life?
I can hear, underground, that sucking and sobbing,
In my veins, in my bones I feel it --
The small waters seeping upward,
The tight grains parting at last.
When sprouts break out,
Slippery as fish,
I quail, lean to beginnings, sheath-wet.
There's a hole in heaven and you're watching me
I'll show you this silver coin I carry
One side fear and the other side love
I still have time enough, I have enough
There's a hole in heaven where my heart slips through
There's a hole in heaven and I'm right behind you
Right behind you
another view, from a song by Rani Arbo
One of my favorite poems about death is Thanatopsis (written by William Cullen Bryant when he was 17 years old).
The final stanza is
So live, that when thy summons comes
to join the innumerable caravan,
that moves to the pale realms of shade,
where each shall take his chamber in the silent halls of death,
Thou go not, like the quarry-slave at night,
Scourged to his dungeon, but sustain'd and sooth'd
By an unfaltering trust, approach thy grave,
Like one who wraps the drapery of his couch
About him, and lies down to pleasant dreams.
Thank you Amy. You are correct, it was the most difficult article yet for me to put together. So hard to have to choose from so many meaningful poems... so little space to say much. I hope my introductory words set the tone for the poems.
I too lost a dear friend to cancer while in high school. His death was a slower process and many fellow students didn't realize he was seeing his last days on earth. It was kind of an unusual secret to keep.
Your comments, "Not many of us like to think about death, much less about our own demise. Yet there is a real therapeutic and enlightening release in reading and writing about death." are important.
This article touches me deeper than you will ever understand. Thank you for reminding us of the importance of writing about all topics including death.
My Epitaph (c)
Ashes to Ashes
and Dust to Dust
Is what the Preacher said . . .
But in the Morning Light
I see No New Grave Site.
For, you see . . .
I am dead.
Corny, perhaps ..... but I like it ......... KS
Sissy.. thanks. Dickinson wrote quite a few on the subject of death. Difficult to choose my favorite.
As someone who embraces much of Buddhism, I meditate on death as well as life that I might be able to embrace the entire reality of being. Seeing the panorama of being brings peace. Thank you, Edward for sharing poems about death.
My life closed twice before its close --
It yet remains to see
If Immortality unveil
A third event to me
So huge, so hopeless to conceive
As these that twice befell.
Parting is all we know of heaven,
And all we need of hell.
I do also love Bryant's last verse of Thanatopsis that Linda R. quoted from, that first line is so stirring, I hear it as SO LIVE! Which we all wish to do.
Thanks Subroto and to Michael for that great comment on Donne.
Here's one I didn't see there:
In Flanders Fields
By: Lieutenant Colonel John McCrae, MD (1872-1918)
Canadian Army
IN FLANDERS FIELDS the poppies blow
Between the crosses row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.
We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved and were loved, and now we lie
In Flanders fields.
Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields.
I especially liked the Donne poem. The last line says to me that since physical death occurs only once, it is dead to us once we have passed it; kind of like birth.
Now that I'm inspired I'll go play on the forge. Thanks for the sparks.
Your tone and your thoughtfulness engages me, remiding me of days past and present.
But as I strolled thru this bone yard of death poetry with you, I kept myself half shielded.
I can not bend to these quaint words on death.
Having walked thru, if only briefly....
I knew I could not continue to embrace this idea of passing....t
(this from the girl who used to get high in grave yards at night)
Thank you for providing us a forum to face this difficult aspect of life.
Stirred my emotions, loved the story. And
Bronte, Yeats,'Whitman', Tennyson, and all
the rest are my favorites. I did read a great
book long ago,'As I lay Dying' by Isaac A., I
cannot remember if that is the correct name
or how to spell his last name. Asminov or
something in that nature. Thanks Ed.
Nice selections on a universal theme. And I might add the epitaph on my great grandfather's (mother's side) stone--he was a Civil War vet:
Stranger pause as you pass by,
As you are now, so once was I.
As I am now, so you will be;
Prepare for death and follow me.
And, not to toot my own horn too loud, but there's my poem "Tethered Balloons" on my gather site that attempts to soften the dread of death a bit. I think you've seen it, haven't you?
Yes, another very good Poetry Central. Thanks for your dedication to it and superb thought put into it.
Because I could not stop for Death,
He kindly stopped for me;
The carriage held but just ourselves
And Immortality.
We slowly drove, he knew no haste,
And I had put away
My labour, and my leisure too,
For his civility.
We passed the school where children played,
Their lessons scarcely done;
We passed the fields of gazing grain,
We passed the setting sun.
We paused before a house that seemed
A swelling of the ground;
The roof was scarcely visible,
The cornice but a mound.
Since then 'tis centuries; but each
Feels shorter than the day
I first surmised the horses' heads
Were toward eternity.
Emily Dickinson
Cover me well my loved ones
for I journey far above
protect me from the cold
shower me with love
pray I not be thirsty
I swallow up your tears
stay behind and guard for me
I leave you with no fears
my love I have to take away
I leave you far behind
I pray that you will join me soon
always in your mind
a wonderment awaits me now
I'm off to go and see
what God has set aside
there lies eternity
It does leave out what is perhaps a whole other topic, poets' suicide. So I've brought out an old tribute to Anne Sexton which has not yet seen the light of day: for anne sexton: epitaph and impromptu
I like some of Poe's pieces too. I can't think of a specific one, but with Poe, they are pretty much all about death. loss, or some twist of both.
I like the old traditional by the Rev. Gary Davis and as performed by Garcia and the Dead. First two stanzas are below:
Death Don't Have No Mercy
As performed by the Grateful Dead
Y' Know Death Don't Have No Mercy In This Land
Death Don't Have No Mercy In This Land, In This Land
Come To Your House, You Know He Don't Take Long
Look In Bed This Morning, Children Find Your Mother Gone.
I Said Death Don't Have No Mercy In This Land.
Death Will Leave You Standing And Crying In This Land,
Death Will Leave You Standing And Crying In This Land, In This Land, Yeah!
Your great grandfather's epitaph:
Stranger pause as you pass by,
As you are now, so once was I.
As I am now, so you will be;
Prepare for death and follow me
is awesome. I'll check out your poem. Nice to hear from you!
"Sloooow down -- everybody's dead."
Cast a cold eye
On life, on death,
Horseman, pass by!
Cynthia, wow, that's way harsh, but also very cool tercet verse for an epitaph.
Winter Sill
Would it be so bad
to die alone but peacefully
like a late season fly
flipped over on your back
buzzing like a weak kazoo
on wax paper wings
recalling a short, full life
the perils and the prizes
the clouds of pesticide
the swatters and the spiderwebs
and the love, oh yes the love
the last sunset you see
blooms like a cold red rose
through your many eyes
till it multiplies, magnifies
through the dirty pane
Tennyson's Lady of Shallot is a great poem on so many levels, and there is no more beautiful an interpretaion of it than Loreena McKennitt's version in song:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MU_Tn-HxULM
Does this all sound too difficult. Too dreary. too something or other? Do I make you depressed reading what I write because it is not metered; or perhaps my wording and punctuation is off due to the fury of my feelings?
Ed, these are obviosly well chosen poems and your lead into them caught me, other wise, would I ever have written such honesty in ten minutes? Good Job Ed. As always.
When I was 22, I was given zero % chance to live. I am 52 now.
I thank God for every day. rpw
Roethke-- Nobel
The Waking
I wake to sleep and take my waking slow
I feel my fate in what I cannot fear
I learn by going where I ahve to go...
the most beautiful of all is Abendrot of the Strauss Vier letzen Lieder
and T S Eliot, Ash Wednesday
because I do not hope to turn again
because I do not hope
Because I do not hope to turn
Desiring this man~s gift and that man~s scope
I no longer strive to strive toward such things...