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by Trudy P.
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March 16, 2007

Asthma just killed my brother-in-law

May 20, 2007 01:02 PM EDT (Updated: May 20, 2007 06:58 PM EDT)
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My Brother-in law Skip, just died from asthma last Friday.  We got the shocking call yesterday from my husband's older brother Dave.  Skip would have been 70 on May 21st.   Unfortunately Asthma runs in my side of the family too,  I  lost my Uncle (my father's brother) many years ago to Asthma.   I have Asthma, my daughter has Asthma and also my Grandaughter Ashley has it.    Luckily mine is not real severe, but my daughter's and Ashley's is very bad.   Both my daughter and Ashley are on medication to control it.  

Asthma is a respiratory disease caused by allergy, resulting in spasm and constriction of bronchial passages and swelling of the mucous lining, obstruction of breathing, and severe paroxysms of coughing and audible wheezing.  It is the same type of hypersensitivity as Hay Fever, but in asthma the allergic reaction occurs in the bronchi, not in the nasal passages.  Bronchial asthma and hay fever occur at the same time in many people.

Asthma is caused by the same agents as hay fever, and to a lesser degree, by foods like eggs, shellfish, nuts and chocolate.   Some times ingestion of drugs may trigger an asthma attack.  Another type of asthma, known as infective asthma, is caused by infections of the adenoids, sinuses, or tonsils.

Many people, don't realize that asthma can be a killer.  If you have asthma or think you have it, please take care of it.  See your doctor,  take your medication as prescribed, and try to avoid triggers (which is some times impossible.) 

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Comments: 109

Debbie G. May 20, 2007, 1:05pm EDT
I am sorry for yur family's loss, Trudy. Thank you for reminding sufferers to aggressively seek control of symptoms. Poorly controlled asthma over time also causes changes in the heart muscle and cardiac function.
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DesertDarlene L. May 20, 2007, 1:07pm EDT
I have asthma, too and I have nearly died because of it when I was a child. When you get other respiratory diseases, it can be really bad. I had pneumonia once and I was sooo sick.

Yes, a lot of people act like allergies and asthma are nothing. I think I've had someone tell me at least once that you can't die from asthma. Hello! If you can't breathe, you can die.
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arlene (no shame in my game) w. May 20, 2007, 1:12pm EDT
That is really sad and scary Trudy. My mother has pretty severe asthma.
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Randy- Being true to myself May 20, 2007, 1:14pm EDT
Trudy, it is always hard to find out that a loved one has passed away. You have written a most wonderful article in your brother-in-law's memory by reminding, and informing us about the dangers and cause s of such ailments.

I understand the hurt and suffering, and I hope that your family and you will have the strength to remember all of the good, and wonderful moments in Skip's life. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Christine P. May 20, 2007, 1:15pm EDT
Oh my, I am so sorry and will keeps my thoughts and prayers with you and your entire family.
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♥~♥ Phaedra ♥~♥ .. May 20, 2007, 1:15pm EDT
My prayers are with your family Trudy.

I also suffer from asthma,and at times it is really hard to live with, but I past it on to my sons, and my youngest has had to be rushed to the hospital more times than I can count.
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tomi r. May 20, 2007, 1:16pm EDT
I'm sorry for your loss, Trudy.
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donna h. May 20, 2007, 1:16pm EDT
I am so sorry for your loss, I have heard quite a few asthma related deaths over the years. My first and third daughter have it...and to me it is scary.
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Anne Marie A. May 20, 2007, 1:18pm EDT
I am so sorry for your loss as well. My daughter and I have asthma too. I have been guilty of forgetting to take an inhaler with me. I do not need to use it every day, but I do take singulair daily. I think the ad describing a fish out of water gasping for breathe is a good description of a more serious attack and what if feels like and can happen. Again, I am sorry for the loss of your brother-in-law Skip.
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Jenny T. May 20, 2007, 1:20pm EDT
Sorry for your loss. I have cough variant asthma... luckily, though, it's very minor.
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Layla Morgan Wilde May 20, 2007, 1:20pm EDT
Trudy, I'm sorry for your family's loss.
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Sophiya S. May 20, 2007, 1:25pm EDT
I'm so sorry for your loss Trudy. I appreciate your writing this article to warn and instruct others with asthma
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Patti Woodard May 20, 2007, 1:27pm EDT
Hi Trudy- Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. I know there have been advances in treating lung and bronchial diseases and hope for the best for you and your family now and in the future. I had asthma as a child, but outgrew it- my sister didn't for some reason. Take care and give our best to your family, Patti
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Gerald_Waving my Freak-flag High Brewster May 20, 2007, 1:29pm EDT
My condolences, Trudy...I had no idea. Please keep a close eye on those two precious girls. I'm hoping they stick around for a long, long time!
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CyberGwen ! May 20, 2007, 1:31pm EDT
I am sorry for your family's loss.

I have asthma. I spent a lot of school days in the little oxygen tent in the hospital and as an adult have had many "visits" to the emergency room due to anaphylaxis.
I am never without my inhaler and Epi-Pen.

I hope that this might make you smile.....at one point my attacks were so frequent that 911 had a note to ask me where my dog was when I called. He would get very upset when I was having an attack and didn't understand that the paramedics were there to help me. He would plant himself next to me and growl at them when they tried to get near me. It was never funny then, but it has made me laugh since.

Again, my thoughts are with you and yours:)
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Robi Y. May 20, 2007, 1:32pm EDT
My Sympathy to you and yours, I have lost some distant cousins with this it is awful. my prayers are with you, thanks for the article at your timeof grief.
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Angela <:3---}~~~~ M. May 20, 2007, 1:33pm EDT
That is so sad Trudy, Sorry for your loss.

I have a lot of triggers, The main one being rabbits. Me petting a rabbit can put me in the hospital in a blink.

People who think its necessary to take a bath in colone, expecally those little old ladys i pass in the store I wonder if they realize the are a walking plague to those of us that have asthma.

And my biggest gripes is the smokers. You know the ones, they light up in the non-smoking areas or stand outside the doors of businesses trying to get that last puff as if their life depends on it. Well mine depends on you not getting that last puff at the door. Their little bit of joy in that last puff can send me into a downward spiral and need weeks of high powered medication that packs the weight on like mad. One day that medication may not work...and then your last puff may cause someone to take their last breath. That last breath could be someones child. Id just like all of those that smoke to think about that. Before lighting up in public.
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Bhawana 'Gather Proud Mom' May 20, 2007, 1:38pm EDT
Trudy My condolences...My prayers are with your family...
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flit . May 20, 2007, 1:38pm EDT
Your article scared the bejeebers out of me.... I have severe asthma that I tend to try to ignore when I can .... I tend to think of it as an inconvenience rather than something I need to take seriously.

thanks for the boot to the behind (I think)
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Karen E. May 20, 2007, 1:45pm EDT
Trydu, I am so sorry to hear of your brother in laws death. My youngest daughter had asthma when she was growing up, so I know how difficult it is to live with, you never know when an attack is going to occur.

I had two asthma attacks in my life, once when we had new carpeting put in our house, the second time when we bought our new trailer. I think both times the attacks were triggered by the chemicals used in the manufacture of carpet. I really thought I was going to suffocate from not being able to breathe. It was very scary to go through. Thank you for the reminders and warnings.
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Cecile V. May 20, 2007, 1:48pm EDT
Trudy, I am sorry for your loss. There are various degrees of asthma, and all should be monitored and taken seriously.
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Kjersti W. May 20, 2007, 2:01pm EDT
Sad to hear about your loss, but great informative article about asthma.
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Lisa M. May 20, 2007, 2:02pm EDT
so sad trudy - I'm sorry for your loss. People do not realize how serious asthma is. we had a student a few years back die in a hallway from an asthma attack. My oldest son has asthma and we take it very seriously.

thanks for the reminders
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judith t. May 20, 2007, 2:09pm EDT
Trudy, my sincere sympathy to you and your family for your tragic loss. But thank you for sharing valuable information with the rest of us. My ex-husband and some of my children have experienced asthma attacks on occasion during childhood, but I haven't thought much about it since they have been grown. I will certainly try to read up more on it and be sure to alert them and tell them to be watchful of their children as well.

Thank you again!
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Teresa A. May 20, 2007, 2:09pm EDT
I am so sorry for your loss may Gods love always be with you and yours. You are in my prayers. I understand the family issue of this I myself have asthma, along with my brother, niece, and also great niece. There has been many touch and go's for my great niece and she isnt even 2 yet. It took awhile for the doctors to diagnose her with this they thought she had pneumonia had her in the hospital being treated for that when they found out it was a severe case of asthma Its a scary thing. I agree with taking care of it as the doctor has prescribed.... again I am so sorry for your loss.
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Michelle W. May 20, 2007, 2:12pm EDT
I am sorry to hear this. Thank you for the information. I only a couple of people who have asthma, so I will pass this along.
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Janna O'Donnell May 20, 2007, 2:28pm EDT
My condolences to you and your family, Trudy. One of my sons has reactive airway disease and we're very serious about his meds and keep his inhaler with me at all times.
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Caprice F. May 20, 2007, 2:34pm EDT
I'm sorry for your loss, dealing with asthma is very difficult. Two of my children have it, and my oldest seems to be growing out of it, but when she was little, it was so severe, she was sick all of the time it seemed like, and in and out of the hospital. Take care of yourself.
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Elaine A. May 20, 2007, 2:39pm EDT
I am so very sorry for your loss Trudy. Thank you for the info, I will pss it on.
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Geeta M. May 20, 2007, 2:49pm EDT
I'm so sorry Trudy. I had a friend whose Mom died suddenly from an asthma attack. The poor lady was only 40.
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Virginia M. May 20, 2007, 2:56pm EDT
I am very sorry to hear about your brother-in-law. Many people don't realize how serious asthma can be. Thanks for helping make others aware.
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Walker Bennett, SF Author May 20, 2007, 2:59pm EDT
I am really sorry to hear of that. I lost my best friend on Dec. 26th to emphysema (distantly related disease, but preventable) and the medications for both are similar.
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Nanina Hawk May 20, 2007, 3:07pm EDT
My condolences to you and your family. Take care of yourselves.
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Carol P. May 20, 2007, 3:11pm EDT
So sorry for your loss Trudy. My Mom died at age 39 in 1974 with asthma. My brother also has it.
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Diane Seacrest May 20, 2007, 3:11pm EDT
My heart goes out to you and yours.
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Nana to Seven Cutiepies May 20, 2007, 3:14pm EDT
I'm so sorry to hear this sad news Trudy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Thanks for the information about asthma. I don't know anyone who suffers from this.
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Lucky Stars May 20, 2007, 3:33pm EDT
I'm so sorry about your loss, Trudy. Thank you for taking the time to pass your message on to so many others.
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Lisa Lisa May 20, 2007, 3:35pm EDT
I'm sorry for your loss.
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Kay C. May 20, 2007, 3:57pm EDT
Please accept my condolences, God bless you and your family.
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Katrina Hall May 20, 2007, 4:02pm EDT
Trudy, the information you posted was an eye opener! Thank you, and hugs to you and your family at this sad time.
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Kathryn E. May 20, 2007, 4:03pm EDT
Trudy, thanks for pointing me to this. I work with a woman who lost her brother years ago to Asthma. When my kids were little and none of us had asthma, we knew many tykes who had severe asthma attacks. Fortunately, their asthma is now controlled.

On my side and on my husband's side of the family, allergies run wild. My husband and I are tne ONLY left-handers in our families and also the ONLY ones without allergies.

I only came down with asthma after an episode of severe pneumonia more than 10 years ago. I was on inhalers for months; now, the cold boncho spasm does not bother me much, nor do most triggers, though I avoid down pillows.

I have infective asthma, trouble only when I am run down and come down with a severe cold/bronchitis.

Then I must go on prednisone and rest. This is what happened this week.

I was on prednisone a couple of times 10 years ago, and not again until the last year, when I allowed myself to get run down at work and on Gather. This past week has been the fourth time in a year I've had to go on prednisone. Fortunately, prednisone works great and so do the antibiotics. If I slept enough, I'm certain I would not come down with bronchitis; I'm certain I would get a cold, only. It is up to me to see that I maintain my control over the asthma.

Thanks for this most important advice and information.

Sorry about your brother in law. As I am 55, I have much to think seriously about during the rest of my decades here on earth.
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Brian .. May 20, 2007, 4:15pm EDT
very sorry for your loss! - thank you for the information.
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K.M. Frontain May 20, 2007, 4:18pm EDT
Sorry to hear about this, Trudy.
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j - Frugal Mom - r. May 20, 2007, 4:38pm EDT
I am so sorry to hear about your loss Trudy. I have asthma as well, and unfortunately it seems as if I started a family trend. Both of my sons have asthma, and I was not diagnosed until my oldest son was diagnosed at age 2 1/2. I have had symptoms since I was about two years old though, we just never knew what to look for.

Thanks for posting this reminder in the memory of your brother - in-law. My thoughts are with you and your family.
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Eyvonne H. May 20, 2007, 4:57pm EDT
Sorry for your loss. My son and I both have asthma. Peanut skins are what nearly killed me.
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Laurun M. May 20, 2007, 5:17pm EDT
Trudy, I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your brother-in-law. Thank you for the information regarding Asthma. I have a bit of it and I'm allergic to bees and some other insects and plants too. It is true though that stress can weaken your system to be less resistant to attacks.
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Jerry Stubbs May 20, 2007, 5:31pm EDT
Very informative article, Trudy. You have my sympathy for you recent loss. I pray that you and your children and grandchildren will overcome the same fate. God bless you.
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Anne B. Grote May 20, 2007, 5:33pm EDT
I am so sorry for your loss, Trudy! I have asthma, too. I try to be careful and avoid triggers. A good allergist helps. Thanks for sharing this important information.
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© MrBill   May 20, 2007, 5:34pm EDT
Trudy, sorry to hear of your family's loss.
Best wishes to all of you.
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Sherry W. May 20, 2007, 5:37pm EDT
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, Trudy.
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Elsie Duggan May 20, 2007, 5:39pm EDT
So sorry for your loss and my sympathy to your sister. My daughter-in-law suffers from severe asthma and I also have a granddaughter with it. Everyone needs to know what a dangerous condition this is if not treated promptly and properly. This is a good reminder to all of us. Thank you.
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Sensational Sadie Sexy Senior Sitizen May 20, 2007, 6:00pm EDT
I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you for making us aware of the dangers of this disease.
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Susan *. May 20, 2007, 6:07pm EDT
Trudy, I am an asthma sufferer too....as was my maternal grandfather. Grandpa Nott also died of an astha attack before I was born. I am SO sorry that this happened to your family. Asthma is a serious disease and one that is nothing to take lightly. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time and that I understand. Also...take care of yourself. you know as well as I do that emotions can trigger an attack as can strong smells, so watch yourself and your family during the next few days and avoid the lilies at the funeral home if you can...they are one of my biggest triggers and an employee at a funeral home told me they are highly allergic flowers for many people, asthmatic or not. God Bless!
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Linda DeMerle May 20, 2007, 6:08pm EDT
Condolences, Trudy. I lost a good friend to an asthma attack, so, even though my asthma is very mild, I always carry my inhaler. He'd left his at home. Thank you for this important reminder.
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Cara V. May 20, 2007, 6:19pm EDT
I'm really sorry to hear of your loss. Both of my kids have had asthma since the age of 2. Neither of my kids are on medication for it anymore because as they've gotten older they have "grown out" of some of the allergens that once made them so sick. However, we always have Albuterol and a nebulizer on hand, just in case.
Thanks for telling others about asthma...most people don't know how serious asthma is or can be. Again, I'm really sorry for your loss.
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Alicia Storey May 20, 2007, 6:24pm EDT
wow I never knew that asthma could be so dangerous. I am so sorry for your lost.
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Autumn Farrington May 20, 2007, 6:28pm EDT
Trudy: I am so sorry to hear of your brother-in-laws passing. I know this must have been a shock.

You are kind to let us know these medical facts. Thank you.
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Mandi -Watch where the chalk-white arrows go. To the place where the sidewalk ends. S.S. May 20, 2007, 6:29pm EDT
how horrible... I am so sorry.

i take zyrtec and singulair..I did not know how bad my breathing was until I started singulair...that stuff really clears my lungs...and makes mild colds a lot shorter and easier to take!
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Susan *. May 20, 2007, 6:31pm EDT
Trudy, I just started a group about Asthma and I would be honored if you would join and post this article there. I'd like to make it our first featured article. Please watch for an invitation or go to this link to sign up....

asthmaattack.gather.com

God Bless and stay well!
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Karolyn Q. May 20, 2007, 6:42pm EDT
My sympathies to you and your family.
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Jill~Sexy Back~ V. May 20, 2007, 6:43pm EDT
I am so sorry for your loss. Our family's prayers and thoughts go out to you in this difficult time. Thank you so much for sharing this information about Asthma to help others avoid tragedy. You are truly an angel.
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Lawrence U. May 20, 2007, 6:50pm EDT
My heart-felt sympathy for your loss, Trudy.
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Mary Beth Magee May 20, 2007, 7:35pm EDT
Trudy, my heart goes out to you and your family. You are all in my prayers. And thank you for being so generous of heart as to take time in this sad situation to warn others. You are an amazing lady.
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Gorgeous Gabby, a Gather Geeky Gal, and The Giz May 20, 2007, 7:35pm EDT
I'm so sorry to read your article and to hear about your brother-in-law. My son and I both have asthma. I had no idea one could die from it until my tax preparer told me that he daughter died from it 2 months ago. I've been in bad condition but never was scared. Now I'm scared. I'll take our symptoms more seriously for now on!

Says Debi as she passes Trudy the box of tissues.
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wiaka's just ... curious May 20, 2007, 8:04pm EDT
Trudy, so sorry foryour families lost.

This brings to mind; that our school willnot let the children carry their inhaler. The inhaler has to stay in the office even with a doctors note; what at they thinking.

My youngest son has asthma and now that he is 29 will not take all of his medication and will not go to his allergist anymore, it greives me because he has had many scares, sending him to the hospital.

Thank you for the article andinformation, hopefully I will be able to get him to read it.

many blessings
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Rosa See Ya May 20, 2007, 8:22pm EDT
I too send heartfelt sympathy for your loss. I had a friend who died from asthma at age 38, and she had two little babies. She took her meds faithfully, but just went on a coughing spree and died of a heartattack.
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tuwanda t. May 20, 2007, 8:25pm EDT
Trudy we love you. Thank you I also have medication I need to take .
Asthma this time of year gives me the blues. Be Blessed Love.
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Annette E. May 20, 2007, 8:32pm EDT
I'm so sorry about you brother-in-law.
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Laurie White May 20, 2007, 8:40pm EDT
Trudy, my condolences to you and your family. I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. This is a serious reminder for all who suffer from asthma or any other potentially fatal illness/disease.
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Tara R. May 20, 2007, 8:59pm EDT
Trudy - I am very sorry for your loss. It can be so difficult when something happens so unexpectedly. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

I also have asthma and I agree that people do not necessarily understand how serious it can be. Thank you for taking the time to express the true nature of asthma.
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Jeff R. May 20, 2007, 9:23pm EDT
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
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Sandra ~ D. May 20, 2007, 9:29pm EDT
I'm sorry about your brother-in-law, Trudy. I have asthma but am on medication and right now it IS impossible to avoid the triggers. Everything is in bloom. The only time I'm not wheezing is when it rains. Thankfully we've been getting quite a bit of rain. I am on medication.
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Member Photog May 20, 2007, 9:57pm EDT
my condolences....thx for educating those of us who are not familiar with this condition.....take care,gayle
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Wilma M. May 20, 2007, 10:29pm EDT
Trudy, I am sorry for your loss. Asthma can be a very dangerous disease. It has to be very frightening to not be able to get your breath.
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Aaron Lazar, (author of LeGarde Mysteries) May 20, 2007, 10:31pm EDT
Oh, Trudy. This is tragic. I'm so sorry for your loss. Sometimes I feel like a wimp staying home for my aggravated asthma (I've been out of work for three weeks), but when you remind us of the ultimate consequences, I don't feel quite so foolish. Asthma kills, and we must be vigilent. Again, my deepest condolences, my friend.
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Carol Lloyd May 20, 2007, 10:31pm EDT
thank you for posting I am sorry for your loss
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Stephanie, proud Maw-Maw to my 2 granddaughters, G May 20, 2007, 11:48pm EDT
My daughter has asthma as does my husband, I know how bad asthma can get, it scares me everytime.

My sympathies are with you and your family!
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Jennifer N. May 21, 2007, 12:30am EDT
I'm so sorry to hear this, Trudy. I am one that was not aware asthma was so serious, and have been told it's possible I have allergy induced asthma. (I rarely have attacks where I wheeze and have issues breathing, but it has happened before.)

My thoughts are with you all.
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Jessie W. May 21, 2007, 2:04am EDT
I'm so sorry for your family's loss, Trudy! I know it must be painful. This was a good article and I know your brother-in-law would be proud of you for making people aware.

I actually thought I had asthma as a child, but recently, I started noticing a correlation between times I would wake up choking on reflux and my subsequent asthma attacks. I did some research and found that sometimes, esophageal spasm and reflux can be mistaken for asthma. I talked to my doctor and got on medication for the reflux and voila, the asthma disappeared. I have, since, had an asthma attack caused by allergies, but it isn't anywhere near as severe as when I would inhale regurgitated stomach acid when I was sleeping. So, my point is, you need to be aware of everything your body is doing because sometimes, there are other factors and it's important to find your specific triggers and especially for older adults, if you've had a worsening of your asthma and can look back and see that you also have had a worsening of your gastroesophageal reflux disease, there may be more of a correlation between those two things than you know. And, treating the GERD could reduce your asthma symptoms remarkably!
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Barbary Chaapel May 21, 2007, 6:23am EDT
Trudy,

Thank you for posting this valuable information. I had asthma as a child.
Healing thoughts sent your way.
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Jean E. May 21, 2007, 6:48am EDT
Trudy - am very sorry for your loss. The fact that you also took the time to research and post information means a lot - you are a wonderful and caring person. Jean
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Lisa J May 21, 2007, 8:35am EDT
Trudy, sorry for your loss. Thank you for taking the opportunity to shock people and increase their awareness.
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Lisa H. May 21, 2007, 8:35am EDT
My condolences to you and your family, Trudi.
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Free A. May 21, 2007, 10:29am EDT
I'm so sorry for the loss of a family member Trudy. My sister has an asthma too. It's good that she has outgrown it. Thanks for posting this message; awareness helps a lot.
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Edward Nudelman May 21, 2007, 10:50am EDT
So sorry to hear that. Did he have his bronchiodilator with him? Of course, that is key, but not always available. Thanks for alerting us, and again, I'm so sorry to hear that.
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Quinn (aka Entwife) Blackburn May 21, 2007, 11:06am EDT
I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Thank you so much for turning this sad event in your life into a positive opportunity to warn others of this oft times disregarded danger.

Wishing you laughter and healing, Dearheart.

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Tonja H. May 21, 2007, 11:14am EDT
Thankyou for sharing this info with us, and yes, prayers and sympathy to you and your family. Hugs- T
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Melanie B. May 21, 2007, 1:28pm EDT
Sorry for your family's loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Thankyou for this great information.
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David Cannon May 21, 2007, 8:09pm EDT
I am so sorry for your loss Trudy and I hope you all heal together, my cousins funeral is on friday he lost a long fight to cancer, he was only 28 years old! We where never close, we never seen each other for so long, but still it was such a shame to hear of his death. I wish you all the best and my heart goes out to you and your family and my cousins too
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Jen (I'm back for more!) G. May 22, 2007, 12:39pm EDT
I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for posting about asthma because most people do not realize how serious it is.
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Connie C. May 22, 2007, 1:56pm EDT
I am so sorry for your loss. I too have athma and I know how dangerous it can be.
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Robert S. May 23, 2007, 6:09am EDT
Thats too bad, sorry for your loss.
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Bill Briggs May 23, 2007, 8:25am EDT
Hi Trudy, I was shocked when you let me know about the loss of your brother-in-law, and was sorry for your's and Ralph's loss. It is allways hard to loose a loved one suddenly. I have asthma also, and have been very blessed it is under control.

TAKE CARE-BILL
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Donna R. May 23, 2007, 2:26pm EDT
I'm sorry for your family's loss. It is a very informative article. Thank you, and take care.
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Stephanie S. May 24, 2007, 1:54am EDT
So sorry to hear of your loss. Thanks for the information about a horrible disease. I didn't know of it's serverity. My thoughts are with you.
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vickie f. May 24, 2007, 2:17pm EDT
My thoughts are with you,Breathing, I have a advanced lung disease the doctors kept saying it was ashma but it was not just that now it is advanced to the point of no return. My sugestion is that eyeryone have xrays and make sure that you just have ashma. better to be safe then sorry.
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Kristen D. May 24, 2007, 3:19pm EDT
Trudy, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Thank you so much for posting this article to help make people aware. You even shook me up a bit. I have asthma and so does my 7 year old son. We are both on medication to control it and rarely have anything more than some wheezing or tightness in the chest, but we are both prone to respiratory infections if we aren't careful. I know the dangers of asthma, but your article is a good reminder to take care of myself as well as keep a close eye on my son. Again, thank you, and I am so sorry for your loss.
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Patricia I. May 25, 2007, 4:25am EDT
I am so sorry for your loss, Our family experienced a loss due to ashma also. My brothers's wife died of an ashma attack the day after Christmas about 10 years ago, She left 2 children and our family had a very hard time.
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