The crowd of familiar school bus drivers and friends had all gathered around Carlos, his handsome Brasilian face shone in the midmorning sun, and the smile on his face said it all. It had been eighteen months since I’d first laid eyes on Carlos. His quiet smile remained, but instead of standing and gesturing like he’d done before he now sat immobile and strapped in a wheelchair. His wife and three sons stood proudly behind him. My heart sank, oh God, this hurt…tears welled.
As I took my place among our group and the hundreds of other walkers, Carlos was leading the way in his wheelchair. Smile unwavering he directed us up one street, then down another, around and around we went. My toes hurt, my hips ached, I needed water, but my conscience scolded, “You stupid fool, you really oughta have something to complain about, keep going!” Chastising done, I trudged on, stopping only to snap a few photos of this great group of smiling, resolute people banded together for the cause.
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The crowd was growing by the minute as my hubby and I made our way toward the sign which said "Registration - Walk to Dfeet ALS" last Saturday morning. I had never walked for a cause before, so this was something new, unknown and a bit mysterious. After obtaining our participation t-shirts, we spotted my hubby's school bus driving co-workers and headed toward the group sign which said, Drivers, Walking for the Cure, Carlos Superstars.
I’d heard of Lou Gehrig’s Disease (ALS) before, but had never known anyone afflicted. Baseball legend, Lou Gehrig, first brought national and international attention to this disease in 1939 when he abruptly retired from baseball after being diagnosed with ALS. Heck, I’d watched the movie, “Pride of the Yankees” several times, but, until I knew someone afflicted it just never “hit home.” For that, I hang my head in shame. Although 30,000 people suffer simultaneously from this disease, the how’s and why’s remain for the most part, a mystery. Studies show only a 5-10% occurrence within families and scientists have isolated a gene passed on genetically, but, this does not account for the other 27,000 - 28,500 known cases.
As we neared the finish line our group slowed and stopped. What was going on? With camera in hand I made my way to the front of the column just in time to see two men, remove the straps from around Carlos chest and gently grab him by the forearms and hoist him to a standing position. Very slowly, step by tiny step, with crowds cheering, Carlos walked over the finish line. For ALS there is no cure, no encouraging person to say, “I’m a survivor!” We need one desperately. For more information regarding ALS please check out:
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I hope that someday there are cures for all of the major diseases that are affecting our lives.
My sister-in-law died from complications of MS, My mom and my best friend suffered from cancer, etc.
One of my favorite soap stars from all of my life played Roger on Guiding Light, he was stricken with ALS and it was terrible to see him be taken over by this terrible disease.
Lets pray for miracles.
I forgot to mention; Our group of bus drivers was organized by a member of my hubby's local (STAR/AEA/NEA). They also raised over $400 taking the total contributions that day to over $30,000.
LYNN, LYNN, LYNN
That was three cheers for you!
KUDOS to you!
Bridget - This was my FIRST time, I know it won't be my last!
I just read what Lisa B wrote...just above me. I did date a guy in high school, actually went to homecoming with him, etc. He had ALS, left behind a wife and young daughter. Just several years ago. It was heartbreaking to hear what he suffered and then his family to lose him.
Heroes, all of you, who work and walk towards a cure.
My mother was diagnosed with ALS five years ago, and although we have been desperately searching for any kind of research to point toward a cure, we have come up empty handed.
My mother is giving up, she does not want to live any longer, and I do not blame her. She is paralyzed from top to toe, only her eyes work, and not always. She has a ventiltor, a computer and an electric wheel chair, but she has always said that the day her eye function slows she will not live any longer.
She has made the decision that soon, very soon, she wants the ventilator to be shut off. Right now, we are planning her funeral together, and although it sounds so morbid, it is a beautiful thing as well.
Lynn, thank you for being there with Carlos and his family. I know that support from people like you helps them keep going. They are about to meet hardship as no one can imagine, and believe me when I say that the support (not pity) from people who care about them, will be what will carry them forward.
Thanks again for shedding light on this devastating disease - I hope a cure and answers will come in time for Carlos and his family, and I will continue my search although it is too late for my mother.
Before he found out that he had ALS he was working for my husband doing trim work over the summer. Again, everyone just loved him, and Carlos loves shoes, I'll bet he could wear a different pair everyday for a year, plus. The thing the guys loved the most was to get Carlos' shoes dirty, then he would have to stop what he was doing and clean his shoes off. We always laugh about Carlos and his shoes.
Rodney and Colleen have been a god's send to Carlos and his family. They mow his yard every week and are always there to support him and his family. How lucky he is to have Rodney and Colleen as his dear friends.
Carlos if you read this, I want you to know and I know I speak for alot of people. We LOVE you and you are in our prayers daily. You are such a wonderful person and I am so sorry this has happened to you!
WE LOVE YOU CARLOS!!!
I am so glad that you courageously shown a light on these debilitating,destructive illnesses..
There but for the grace of God..we all are at risk..
Beautiful and Inspiring,Lynn..