As some of you are aware, I am a stand up comedian. Last week I went on a 3 night tour through Wenatchee Washington, Lewiston Idaho, and Butte Montana. I’m a newbie to comedy so I work as a feature or opener for headline acts. I do thirty minutes and the headliner does sixty. To save money comics often travel together whenever possible. My headliner, Dean Olson was from Seattle, so we had arranged to meet up in Wenatchee and after Butte he’d ride back as far as Spokane (my home port) and Greyhound on back home.
I was really looking forward to working with Dean because he is a veteran comic with several television credits on his resume like Evening at the Improv, and Comedy Central. What I didn’t know was that I’d be spending three days riding around the Northwest with a Republican.
At first I was thinking “oh man, this is going to be a long three days.” And I could tell he was thinking the same thing, in fact when we met at the tavern we were performing in the first night, he said so out loud. We hadn’t even left town the next morning when the conversation turned to politics. At first he wanted me to know that although he was staunchly Republican, he didn’t like talking politics because it drove him crazy. I thought right then that ninety percent of the conversation was going to be politics. And we did talk about politics, but like anybody else we talked mostly about what we have in common, comedy. We talked about the comedy business, gossiped about other comics, complained about agents and so on. In other words, we hit it off right away. In fact, the only arena we seemed to disagree on anything was politics. This made the discussions we had on politics a lot different than what I’ve seen here on Gather article threads.
Here in the virtual world of the internet we enjoy the freedom of anonymity. It’s easy to call some one stupid or crazy when you don’t know them or have to look them in the face, or when that someone is not a person you consider a friend. In this situation the conversation was free from party rhetoric and hateful slogans. Sitting a mere few inches apart in a car going seventy five miles an hour as you watch the Rocky Mountains go by just seems to bring out the sincerity in a guy. I was surprised when he told me he was just as dismayed by the ultra conservatives of his party as I was by the ultra liberals of mine. We also agreed that Democrats and Republicans need to see themselves for what they are, the Yin and Yen of America. Government always becomes less effective when the balance of power tips too far in one direction.
I think we learned a lot about each other’s views during those three days. I was moved when Dean told me his biggest reason for opposing abortion was not because he was so cock sure a fetus was a human life, but that it was because he was not sure that he believed it is morally wrong. And I think he was moved when he realized that for myself and others who adamantly oppose the war in Iraq, our passion for that cause is not so much based on animosity towards Bush as it is our emotions of grief at the loss of Americans for a cause we do not believe merits that loss.
I came away feeling a lot better about being an American than I have for a long time. Dean Olson is a good, patriotic American. I sensed a great deal of frustration in him when we discussed the president though. I realized this is a very difficult time for true Republicans. Their party was hi-jacked by the neo-cons, who have now turned on each other. I felt bad but it was good to know there are still Republicans around who are Americans first.
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Devin Barber, Politics Correspondent
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Comments: 22
Do you & your pal ever perform in Portland? If so, let me know. Thanks.
We are probably all more alike than we are different when it comes to politics. We should be building on those commonalities rather than polarizing one another to extremes.
I'm sure you can catch Dean Olson's act in Portland at some time. It may be awhile for me. Just google Dean Olson and you should find his web site.
That was back when I was homeless & had no where to stay for a week.
By the way- I was alone the whole time.
That said, I enjoy talking with those who think differently than I, and often play "devil's advocate" to spark the discussion. (fyi that means taking the opposite side, even though you support the side the other person is on.)
Islamofascists won't stop to ask for whom you voted; they'll shoot you, regardless. And your family, and all your friends. And no matter what the neodems say, we didn't ask for this.
It's a dichotomy; those most qualified to be leaders sit it out, because they'd rather spend their time on their families and businesses than bandying words with a bunch of nitwits who would rather talk than work.
I think the nastiness in politics is nurtured by the media, and carried over on internet forums as pc correct. The more rude, the better, as it scores hits.
My in-laws are coming for a week's visit next week and my father in law will bash Bush the entire week and blame him for us being out of milk in the fridge to a tornado in Kansas to the cost of a haircut.
Neither side will EVER see eye to eye and both sides will always think that THEIR way is the right way. it just gets so irritating.
I really try to avoid people that are going to bash our president and our country.
We have to support our troops overseas no matter what !
They are out there fighting until we bring them home when the time is right.
Just smile be nice to each party
Next people will be saying that liberals have souls!
But seriously, we do need to remember the importance of balance, and that people are more than how they identify themselves politically.
Nicely put, Devin.
Independican here. I veer a little right, straighten it out a bit on social issues, pull a hard right on abortion issues (sorry, mind's made up there), swerve way to left on immigration (we've got some fear mongers I'd love to take out back), countersteer to the right again on taxes, and whooaaaa, nellie look out when it comes to gettin' rid of the IRS. Now THAT's a party!
Hey, I'd love to take you on a ride through the Rockies some time, but maybe you should drive.
:)
I'm a joiner, but not when it comes to parties. They've given a bad name to the word "politics," which means "leadership." Politicians today have forgotten how to lead, and politics has become synonymous with the words "corrupt power grabbing." That was not always the case.
Parties themselves have become the BOSSES of the government, NOT the PEOPLE.
One clear example:
- When a GOVERNING LEADER steps down mid-term (or passes away), who re-appoints the NEW leader? The HEAD of the POLITICAL PARTY to which s/he was affiliated!
Now, give me a break! Do "We, the People" elect Asses and Elephants or do we elect LEADERS? WE elect LEADERS!
The PARTY has too much power if they are to be GRANTED the power to APPOINT the new governing leader. It should be a NEW election BY the people to determine the NEW leader! NOT the politician's wife, brother, best friend, son or the Party Boss's patronage play.
ONE VOTE makes a difference, and ONE POLITICAL APPOINTEE by a PARTY BOSS who we the PEOPLE have NO authority over, constitutes a total corruption of the PEOPLES' process.
Sorry, I got off the subjecto there (why'd nobody stop me?)...
Thanks for your very well spoken (written) piece, Devin. You da man.