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by Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer
Member since:
December 19, 2005

Dispelling Myths, Looking For Answers, and Wondering Who Reads Me

February 03, 2007 05:13 PM EST (Updated: February 06, 2007 04:16 PM EST)
views: 431 | rating: 7.2/10 (38 votes) | comments: 137
 

Daily, I see Gather members advise others to “connect to everyone and publish to as many groups as possible” if they want readers. I assume many accept this advice without investigation since people boast about having thousands of connections, and the lists of groups published to are often longer than the articles. I will explain why I disagree on both points.

 

I have 364 connections, a small number by choice. Many of my connections have not left a comment on anything I have written in months (if ever). I assume that they would leave an occasional comment if they read me often.

 

The last article I published was a writing exercise on January 28 – six days ago. I have watched the People/Most Read numbers since. Below are my standings:

 

1/30 – 20th most read for the day, 7th for the week, 2nd for the month

1/31 – 12th most read for the day, 11th for the week, 2nd for the month

2/1 – 18th most read for the day, 14th for the week, 2nd for the month

2/2 – 2nd most read for the day, 8th for the week, 2nd for the month

 

* the combined First Chapter entries (2,879) beat me (1,306) for the month

 

My numbers have remained consistent for a year, despite my few connections and groups.

 

I joined Gather 410 days ago and have published 344 articles – less than one a day. At least forty of these I published to one private critique group of fewer than twenty members. Quite a few of the articles I published to everyone received fewer than twenty comments (some less than ten).

 

Two thirds of my articles were not Gather related or controversial. Of those, only four received more than a hundred comments:

 

Breasts – Who Wants Them<a> - http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976746480126 comments - 6 groups.

   

Why I Wear Granny’s Image http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976764518 105 comments – 6 groups

 

Everyone Has a Twin http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976769362 196 comments – 7 groups

 

I Think He Was Looking For Feminine http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976848943120 comments – 5 groups       

 

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Below are some of my articles that received between 25 - 100 comments, with the number of comments and groups published to documented.   

 

Too Much Love http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976793312

97 comments – 4 groups

 

Room 224 http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976877985

96 comments – 5

 

Stop Bullying Me http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976748185

92 comments - 2 groups

 

Ignorance Is Bliss http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976756189

86 comments – 6 groups

 

Empty Shirts and Cold Hearts http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976737761– 86 comments - 2 groups

 

 

Camping For Christ http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976841620

86  comments – 5 groups

 

Prelude To Guitar Picks http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976784875  

82 comments – 9 groups

 

He Doesn’t Even Know Where I Live http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976746067

76 comments - 6 groups 

 

He Said, She Said http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976747185

74 comments - 1 group

 

Prayer Requests http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976767776

70 comments – 5 groups

 

Breakdown Canceled  http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976881235

68 comments – 5 groups

 

He Deserves Better http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976803011

67 comments – 6 groups

 

Resourceful Disassembly http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976814456

64 comments  – 5 groups

 

Ethics, Morals, Honesty http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976753532

61 comments – 6 groups

 

Girls Gone a Little Wild  Day 1 http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976826621

61 comments – 5 groups

 

Be Still My Hand http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976815303

59 comments – 5 groups

 

Who Are You  http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976738934-

57 comments  -

 

A Walk With My Real Mother http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976775380

55  comments – 6 groups

 

Tiny’s Tree House http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976802295

55 comments – 6 groups

 

She Was Someone’s Little Girl http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976752111

54 comments – 4 groups

 

Glasses or Stage http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976776568

51 comments - 3 groups

 

Missing Puzzle Pieces http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976741937

50 comments - 6 groups 

 

Mrs. Donohoe’s Pruning Tool http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976810499

50 comments – 6 groups

 

Gospel of Judas http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976742520

49 comments– 2 groups

 

I Forgot To Be Betty http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976781673

49 comments – 8 groups

 

Uncle Charles Hates Towel-heads and Queers http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976741294

45 comments  - 5 groups

 

Great First Dates http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976762402

45 comments – 2 groups

 

Let It Be http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976747752

42 comments - 9 groups

 

Writing Exercise – Wedding - http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976894850

41 comments – 1 group

 

Let’s Dance http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976744257 

38 comments - 5 groups

 

School Prayer http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976735948

26 comments - 4 groups

 

Other members publish articles daily (some of them multiple articles), to large numbers of groups and more connections.

 

These numbers make me question the ‘more connections/more groups’ theory. I think publishing to a few groups that do not have the same members might be more beneficial than publishing to twenty groups of the same members.

 

This study also makes me wonder who reads me. If my readers don’t leave comments, does that mean they are not members? They are members who click on my articles and don't read (if so, why me more than anyone else)? Are they dedicated to Gather, or to me, and would they be willing to read me somewhere else?

 

I would like to hear from those who have kept me at the top of the most read list for the past year, privately, if you prefer – at SandyKnauer@yahoo.com.

 

(I apologize for not using hyperlinks - the system would not allow me to create them today)

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Comments: 137

Eric (Don't Tread On Me) Spindler Feb 3, 2007, 6:01pm EST
Wow! Great research! I can't even tell who gave me points and who didn't...of course I could care less, I am just happy to find articles I enjoy reading!
Yours are some of the best I have seen, but I am still trying to figure out how the "girls Gone...." series ended. I have not located the final chapter.
I enjoyed "Breakdown Cancelled", it's one of your best works!
I don't get time enough to REALLY research on Gather, so I count on looking at "articles for me" to see what has been written since my last opportunity to sign on and actually follow thru. Most times I log on at work and don't get time to read more than one article.
Your stories are involving and interesting, and give the reader a chance to escape the moment and dive into the world you create in just a few passages.
I might not get to read them all, but what I have read has always found me clicking on the '10'.
Thanks, Sandy!
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Dave Butler Feb 3, 2007, 6:12pm EST
I'm new and so far I don't connect unless I think I want to at least peek at what they wrote and hear what they have to say. It's nice to have lots of readers and comments, but after a while it is quality not quantity. Besides it should be a two way street.

Good article. I'm convinced I'm doing this the right way.
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Melissa The Pirate Princess is still alive! Feb 3, 2007, 6:28pm EST
I have only been on Gather since mid-December. I have enjoyed your work very much, Sandy. I do try to comment when I can think of something appropriate. After reading an article yesterday, I don't remember the author and apologize, I have decided to leave "drive-by reader" as a comment when I cannot think of an appropriate or witty comment. This way people will know that I have read their work.
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Melissa The Pirate Princess is still alive! Feb 3, 2007, 6:37pm EST
Funny that you say that, Bongo. I just pruned my connections yesterday.
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Sonia M. Feb 3, 2007, 6:52pm EST
I usually read your articles, Sandy, but don't always leave a comment. I'm not sure how the logistics work. At the moment I have just 200 connections which is a small amount compared to others, yet, it is a huge amount to me, because I want to be able to read and interact with my connections and can't always find the time.
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Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer Feb 3, 2007, 6:55pm EST
I hope you understand that I did not write this to complain about not receiving comments (I stay connected to people who never comment on my work, so obviously do not consider that a top concern regarding whether or not I appreciate others). I hoped this article would point out exactly what some of you are saying - that often people read (and enjoy) an article but do not leave a comment and also show that articles/members who do not have a large number of connections or publish to every group on the site do have readers.

What I didn't mention in this article is my curiosity about the executives, board members, and investors who would rather lose their most read members than deal with the group of people who harass and file erroneous, dishonest, childish, complaints about them.
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Melissa The Pirate Princess is still alive! Feb 3, 2007, 7:12pm EST
It's probably better that you didn't mention. I doubt we will ever get answers on that.
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Granny Janny H. Feb 3, 2007, 7:39pm EST
fascinating Sandy!
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Layne Underwood Feb 3, 2007, 7:40pm EST
I read you ;)... well sometimes.. lol - 344 articles??? omg.. i think i've posted.. 20...
brb... I have to write !!
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Jackie L. Feb 3, 2007, 8:06pm EST
I'm connected to THIRTY-TWO people! w00t! I'm glad you're one of them. I'm only connected to you because I think your chair is sexy.
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Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer Feb 3, 2007, 8:10pm EST
TJ, I think 300 is a large number of connections, too. I kept mine under 200 until some of mine became inactive and I knew I could handle more. I have more time to spend here than most of you because my children are grown, and I don't work outside the home, and I can't keep up with people who publish daily, or more than once a day.

I also read without commenting if I don't have anything new to add. And, I give as many fly-by high ratings as I do low, although nobody seems to mind the high ones.

You make a good point about my experience might be atypical, since I have been writing longer. Knowing if most of my readers are non-Gather members would tell me if those same readers would follow me somewhere else, where the owners would not expect me to put up with repeated flaggings for no reason, people asking me to prove my gender and health status and then reporting me for answering their inane questions, hit list groups, and people sending out mass mailings to ask others to complain when I don't graciously accept being treated that way.
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Wendy HUSSEIN R. Feb 3, 2007, 8:11pm EST
I could have written TJ's first paragraph myself.

Funny you should write this article. I was just thinking the other day that I'm on this site at least once a day (except when I happen to be away from home) and sometimes people ask "where ya been Wendy?" Yesterday someone expressed that he was surprised that he was "on my radar." That surprised me.

I have reached 2 conclusions: first, somewhere in the back of my mind I think that people can see me reading their articles. Second, I don't comment enough. I always at least take a peek at what you're up to. I'm going to try to make contact with everyone more often.
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Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer Feb 3, 2007, 8:18pm EST
I should also add that I am subscribed to many people that I have not requested connections with. If I enjoy someone's work but know (or think) they are not interested in what I publish, I subscribe. That way, I keep up with their work without placing any pressure on them to do the same.
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Melissa The Pirate Princess is still alive! Feb 3, 2007, 8:21pm EST
Does anyone remember Prodigy? It was about 20 some odd years ago. I was a member and began this thread in the computer forum about being addicted to my computer. It became the most widely read thread in all of Prodigy. There were over a 100 people a day responding to it. Prodigy began censoring us. There was a mass exodus to GEnie. Prodigy shut down shortly after. It is a shame that the web sites of today cannot learn from the web sites of yesteryear.
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Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer Feb 3, 2007, 8:23pm EST
Is Bongo thinking outside the box?

(Do the rest of you see his words outside the OBNOXIOUS, UGLY, DISTRACTING ORANGE box that we seem to be stuck with although everyone complained for weeks about how much we hated them?)
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Eric (Don't Tread On Me) Spindler Feb 3, 2007, 8:33pm EST
I like the 'box' - it makes it easy for me to follow the comments,
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Madame Donna C. Feb 3, 2007, 8:34pm EST
Well, I will respond to your article later. Right now I'm trying to figure out, why, if we are connected, I didn't receive notification that you posted this at all?
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Wendy HUSSEIN R. Feb 3, 2007, 8:34pm EST
I didn't either Madame D.
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Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer Feb 3, 2007, 8:38pm EST
That's another good question, Donna. If it wouldn't make me sound terribly paranoid, I would say that it seems like the 'glitches' on this site are terribly selective at times.
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jadan x. Feb 3, 2007, 8:39pm EST
I wondered how Bongo had managed that (getting his words outside the lines). We can't be having any of that NON conformity here.

I have read some of your articles, Sandy, and honestly didn't know what to say. They were well written and I didn't want to leave some trite comment, so didn't leave anything. Guess I will have to mend my ways. I recently went back and found the article about why you used your great grandmother's icon. I was curious as to what the story was behind that. Very intriguing.
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Kevin Weeks Feb 3, 2007, 8:47pm EST
Is it just me, or did anyone else find Bongo's comments off-the-mark?

Sandy,
I currently have 125 connections, but I seldom initiate a connection (I'm more likely to subscribe), I have (or had) criteria for accepeting a connection, and I frequently culled my connection list removing anyone who's name I didn't recognise. I understand that as a correspondent I must seek connections now -- not likely, but I've guit saying no.
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☀ Aunt Shanny Feb 3, 2007, 8:48pm EST
I usually read your articles, but rarely comment. I especially enjoyed your granny and spring break stories.

People click on your stuff because it's generally where the "controversy" is at.
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Madame Donna C. Feb 3, 2007, 8:50pm EST
I can't really address the glitches. I only know that I am receiving postings regularly from my other connections as I sit here.

With regard to your article, obviously I am one of your regular readers, although I don't comment on every article you publish (maybe because I wasn't notified?).

As someone trying to learn writing, I try to follow good writers around and I include you in that group. So, if you were publishing elsewhere I would certainly follow you there.

I have recently thinned my connection list because I had too many connections that were publishing multiple times per day and to more groups sometimes than the words in the article. This kept me too busy clicking and then facing the same article as the last click repeatedly. It was a repetitive waste of time, so I disconnected, and I hope my iterations here make my point.

I am carefully following the rest of my connections in hopes of identifying the quality writers who post conservatively (and I'm not talking politics). If they produce multiple articles, my expectation is that each one is worthy of my time. If not, I plan to disconnect.

I hope that answers your questions.
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Borgie B . Feb 3, 2007, 9:09pm EST
Amber
Your using bad mathematics (aka your formula for calculating rankings is wrong) sweetie!! You forgot to include the part where you live on gather, aka - commenting all day from sunrise to sunset!! If you simply posted articles and did not spend all day on gather (who tracks their rankings every day??? and who spends hours going through all their articles to rank them according to how many comments they received??? - do you work or just spend all day on gather??) you would not get very many comments! Bye
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Melissa The Pirate Princess is still alive! Feb 3, 2007, 9:18pm EST
Amber, do you have anything to do beside bad-mouthing others? Your pictures show you to be such a sweet little slut, and then you open your mouth and ruin everything. Keep up with the acid tongue and you will never keep a man long enough for you to get pregnant and trap him into marriage.
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Missy W. Feb 3, 2007, 9:24pm EST
Sandy,

You raise all kinds of good points:

Readership and why: I have no idea how many connections I have; I never count them; just know that it's cumbersome moving through 3 pages worth, though by others' accounts here that is paltry. "Cumbersome" is a word that I think applies to this site in general, along with "primitive?" I don't post at other forums and only discovered 'gather' as a fluke. In general, I stay here and do this because 1) it's an outlet for my political bent; and 2) I've grown attached to the ideas of certain writers; and 3) I'm psychologically and intellectually somewhat lazy, though curious.

Controversy and Administrative "quirks" for want of a better word for the moment: Have noticed it but don't really care at this point since I don't write for points. If I did, I would probably find another site. Have read off-site critiques of this forum which were not generally favorable. On a strictly personal level, I do not appreciate having to look at Mr. Dershowitz's mug as it pops up, knowing of his stance politically on this forum; but I suppose he paid for it and that, for better or worse, is what free enterprise is about -- if he didn't pay for it, all the more reason for me to get my dibbs in as best I can, or say ta ta.

The ever so primitive flag system: Sometimes I read and rate without comment; rarely flag because free speech is free speech, obnoxious or not.

QUANTITY Vs QUALITY: I go for the latter though don't always practice same; but then I never write for points. Occasionally I send a mass email as in "look ma at what I did, what do you think -- childish but can't help it -- really want to know what "certain" others think and don't want to rely on the happenstance of "browsing though." Have no idea how many people hate this; have been meaning to send mass email [my "mass" isn't all that massive] by way of explanation and "delete me" if this isn't ok.

So, here I am going on quantitatively; hope someone finds it of qualitative use.
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Missy W. Feb 3, 2007, 9:34pm EST
Sandy,

Just wanted to add, there are very few "gatherites" I read, much less read on a regular basis, who are not "political." You are one of the 'gatherites' outside of the strictly political sphere which I do read. I think your writing is some of the best here. Hope you continue even if disenchanted with 'gather' or perhaps as a supplement to.


Amber,

You really are an obnoxious creep, unless you just have an intensely personal dislike for Sandy, in which case you evidently do not have the personal skills to channel it elsewhere or in a socially acceptable manner.
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Susan Marie Feb 3, 2007, 9:54pm EST
I am sticking my foot in my own mouth here but saw this post and hey guys . . . arent we all here to connect? In art, in writing, in talking, in peace, painting, groups ---> gather?

just trying to spread some peace - be nice people, I love it here.

Does it matter how one spends their time here? It's more beneficial to enjoy the presence of one's spirit and the wonder of even connecting with someone in the first place, you know?

There is SO much in here to enjoy, enough of this OUT of here we have to deal with every day . . .

Sorry if i was intruding . . . just spent times on boards where so much of this train of thought was a norm I guess I became a bit jaded to it thinking:

it isnt worth it you know? I look at it as positive that someone wishes to connect with me instead of looking to see if they respond to me or not. I post for myself first. An outlet. And take enjoyment in those who happen to cross my path.

If anyone wants a place to place their thoughts and get responded to you know where I be. Everyone does the best they can, the place is immense.

Think moreso of being grateful for having a place TO place your thoughts without being censored, trust me, have been on way too many of those boards.

Again, I apologize for intruding - if I have . . . just my 2 cents is all.

~ Namaste
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Missy W. Feb 3, 2007, 10:06pm EST
Susan Marie,

Thanks for reminder re "outlet." I think there are some, if not many, 'gatherites' who write professionally and are disapponted with the forum, and perhaps justifiably so. I appreciate the "outlet" aspect and have learned to deal with the sociopolitical, sometimes nasty? aspects of writing here.
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Missy W. Feb 3, 2007, 10:10pm EST
Sandy,

When I used the word "quality" I automatically assumed you knew I meant "my version of."
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Melissa The Pirate Princess is still alive! Feb 3, 2007, 10:49pm EST
Bongo, I think I will stalk you from thread to thread so I can tell you how much I adore you.
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Madame Donna C. Feb 3, 2007, 10:55pm EST
Bongo, you are so "in the moment." Rock on!
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Jennifer F. Feb 3, 2007, 10:56pm EST
This is interesting to see statistically what kind of articles generate the most comments. And I appreciate that you put your articles on this list because some of them I didn't catch first time around. I think some people enjoy thousands of connections because it makes them feel "popular". I know I get a certain thrill when someone puts in a connection request to me. On the other hand, too many connections means that your article list is so long that you might miss the real gems.
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Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer Feb 3, 2007, 11:04pm EST
I appreciated the "outlet" portion of Gather when I found interesting and/or entertaining articles, intelligent discussion, and humor. It might surprise many of you to know that the political threads were what kept me here in the beginning, when I was disappointed that this wasn't the writing site that I had been led to believe it was going to be. And then, Johnny 5000 came along. His writing, brilliant humor, and intelligent and fun following not only drew me in every night, but I sent links to his work to other writers and friends so they could enjoy his work/followers as well. I have sent out links to others, but not as consisently as I did with his work.

To me, finding a great writer and promoting him/her is the most significant way I can connect to others here. I also promote others within the community, by posting links to Gather articles when I see a place where it is appropriate to do so (hence my being dubbed the pimp). I don't think of 'connecting' as clicking on a link and holding someone's name in a file on my namespace; I connect in spirit to many people that I do not share an official Gather connection with but whose company or work I enjoy, and in action by linking other members' work to the world.

And then we have Amber (and others like her) who behave like two-year-olds who need naps. She/they follow me around making ignorant assumptions about every aspect of my life, not caring one bit how ridiculous or untrue her/their statements are. Their contributions amount to annoying many and serving as a "saving project" for a few who think they can buy a ticket to heaven by tolerating their intolerable behavor and calling /them a "little heroine" for being brave enough to insult me daily. So, if people are willing to read me somewhere else, it would probably be kinder for me to publish on a site that requires members to behave like adults - or at least to refrain from lying about others.
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David Rochester Feb 3, 2007, 11:05pm EST
One of the things I really like about my blogging site is that it tells me how many visitors and page views I have had during a day. For example, yesterday I had about 500 page views, but only 10 comments. People don't always comment when they read, but it's nice to have an idea of the traffic. I am neither subscribed nor connected to you, but I always read your articles, even when I don't comment. I tend not to comment unless I have the time and mental capacity to say something worthwhile.
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Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer Feb 3, 2007, 11:13pm EST
I agree, David. I get page views on other sites. For some reason, Gather hasn't wanted to give us that information. And same with you - I read your articles even when I don't comment. And, if I remember correctly, we are not "connected".
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Borgie B . Feb 3, 2007, 11:21pm EST
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What part of my statement is false?? You comment on gather all day and you yourself have said you are disabled and don't work and get state support in Kentucky!! Again, what exactly is untrue about what I said?? Waiting for your response....
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Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer Feb 3, 2007, 11:23pm EST
Amber you are a fool.
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Borgie B . Feb 3, 2007, 11:27pm EST
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I'll take that response as an affirmation of my true statements!!! Thank you very much sweetie!
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Madame Donna C. Feb 3, 2007, 11:33pm EST
I'm curious, since there is no time stamp on our comments, how anyone would know how much time any of us spends here. I come on intermittently, comment like crazy and leave for several hours at a time. Amber, I think you are making assumptions that are unsupportable.
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Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer Feb 3, 2007, 11:41pm EST
She doesn't know, Donna. She assumes or makes up - as she does with most everything else she says. Maybe it takes her all day to read my comments so she assumes it takes me that long to type them?
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Nanci B Feb 4, 2007, 12:01am EST
I am curious Sandy. Have you learned anything from this? My sense is that you were seeking an answer but I am not quite sure what the question is.

I often read without comment. Sometimes I don't have anything to say about an article. Sometimes I don't have the energy to get dragged into the controversy. Sometimes I am just so disgusted that I got sucked into reading something that I know it is a mistake to comment - I might sound like Amber. Those are the articles I might leave a drive-by rating on.

Many times, my connections don't even figure into my reading choices. Sometimes, I go through the list of articles for me, sometimes I go through the list of articles published recently. Other times I scroll through the comment list to find an interesting discussion. Often when comments exceed 75 or so, I just skip the article because it is too hard to join in at the end. Sometimes I don't even know why I am her.
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Borgie B . Feb 4, 2007, 12:09am EST
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Let me explain Madame!! Over my semester break, I had gather on my computer at work and I saw certain members post comments at 8am, 9am,10am, .......up to 2am the next morning when I got back home and was curious to see if they were still on gather!!!! So I DO KNOW SWEETIES!! Oh and Ranndom...why does it matter??? when certain people attack the intelligence of others (Like the crude author of this thread who called me a slut, whore, 2 year old, etc...because she did not like the photo I posted when first coming to gather!!) but is disabled herself and collects money from the government for surfing gather all day..........hypocrite????? crude???? mean????? yep!!! LOL Ok, Im bored with this...see you on another thread, bye sweeties
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Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer Feb 4, 2007, 12:13am EST
Nanci, I had several questions and I have learned a few things from the comments. I do much the same as you - connections, comments, and current articles - although I don't use current articles the way I used to. I tried to find new people that way, but it's hardly worth sorting through the garbage to find them any more and that is really sad to me.

And, often now, I don't know why I am here.
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Madame Donna C. Feb 4, 2007, 12:17am EST
Whether or not Sandy is disabled is a moot point. The fact that you would vilify anyone who is disabled as being less of a person is distasteful, rude and ignorant. Being disabled does not, in many cases, diminish anyone's ability to contribute to society in a meaningful way. To ridicule anyone for physical limitation, in my opinion, says more about you than it does about the person you vilify.
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Ranndom Fire Feb 4, 2007, 12:21am EST
Well spoken Madame.
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Nanci B Feb 4, 2007, 12:22am EST
Amber, if you are the strong, noble person you purport to be, and Sandy is the disgusting slug you make her out to be, shouldn't you be the better person and just stop the negative commenting while ignoring anything the so-called slug posts?

I see that as what the better person would do. A lesser person would keep the argument going by sticking their nose in where they are not being discussed and try to make the conversation all about herself.
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Madame Donna C. Feb 4, 2007, 12:23am EST
Thank you, Ranndom Fire.
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Borgie B . Feb 4, 2007, 12:24am EST
Madame, pardon me, but dont accuse me of doing something I did not do!!

Please find where I "vilify anyone who is disabled as being less of a person"!!

Your the only person doing that!!!!!!

Since you cannot do that.....goodbye and dont comment on my articles in the future, I dont need your kind of negativity and hate on my beautiful creations!!!

bye sweetie! LOL
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Ranndom Fire Feb 4, 2007, 12:35am EST
She really doesn't have a clue does she? Amazing.
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Madame Donna C. Feb 4, 2007, 12:38am EST
Ranndom Fire, my guess is No.
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Aja M. Feb 4, 2007, 12:45am EST
maybe you guys should take charles's profanity challenge...it seems to have turned into a insult-off...no matter the steps taken. i like cookies are there any articles about cookies?
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Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer Feb 4, 2007, 12:52am EST
She doesn't have a clue, nor does she care how foolish she looks.
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Nic P. Feb 4, 2007, 12:53am EST
What I didn't mention in this article is my curiosity about the executives, board members, and investors who would rather lose their most read members than deal with the group of people who harass and file erroneous, dishonest, childish, complaints about them.

(I forgot...in regard to this, I know the answer, I think we all do ka-ching)
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Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer Feb 4, 2007, 12:58am EST
Nicole, my thinking might be totally off, but I think when the people who draw the most readers all leave because they are sick of putting up with people like Amber, the kachings might go down. Or, do you suppose they are hoping for lots more Ambers to replace us?

How many young girls do you suppose are out there with nothing better to do on a Saturday night than harass "disabled old ladies"?
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Nic P. Feb 4, 2007, 1:03am EST
Sandy, I truly TRULY hope not many. I'd like to believe that there are more intelligent grown ups instead of nursery school students.

I suppose we'll see.

(A point of interest, I wrote a HUGE comment before this last one, but the last one is all that shows. Also, I as a subscriber, not a contact received no notice of this article via email. I just happened to be browsing)
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Aja M. Feb 4, 2007, 1:14am EST
cookies are good. what's you favorite kind of cookie? i like Pecan Sandies
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Melissa The Pirate Princess is still alive! Feb 4, 2007, 1:14am EST
I think we better order that psych consult for two instead of one.
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Melissa The Pirate Princess is still alive! Feb 4, 2007, 1:19am EST
I forgot to add that Amber's last post was very martyrrific. ;-)
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Jackie L. Feb 4, 2007, 1:20am EST
I like cookies too. Name some cookies that start with a consonant!
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Ranndom Fire Feb 4, 2007, 1:26am EST
I'll have to go with the Sandies too.
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Jackie L. Feb 4, 2007, 1:26am EST
Really, Melissa? I thought it was moronormous.
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Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer Feb 4, 2007, 1:30am EST
Do you see how they manage to disrupt any conversation that is over their head?
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Jackie L. Feb 4, 2007, 1:33am EST
Is someone talking?
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Melissa The Pirate Princess is still alive! Feb 4, 2007, 1:34am EST
It is very victimlicious as well.
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Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer Feb 4, 2007, 1:35am EST
I am, Jackie. I'm on the phone, in an IM, writing an email, and watching this thread.
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Madame Donna C. Feb 4, 2007, 1:37am EST
Noooo, gimme thin mints!
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Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer Feb 4, 2007, 1:37am EST
and playing a game of spades in another window.
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Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer Feb 4, 2007, 1:38am EST
The cookie conversation is interesting, but doesn't answer many of my questions.
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Melissa The Pirate Princess is still alive! Feb 4, 2007, 1:40am EST
Sandy, you multi-tasker,did you read my comment about Prodigy?
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Nanci B Feb 4, 2007, 1:43am EST
Cookies? Cookies? Who has the cookies?
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Jackie L. Feb 4, 2007, 1:43am EST
I have no answers or cookies. Only invented words.

I have opinions, now...
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Aja M. Feb 4, 2007, 1:44am EST
yay for multi-tasking!all cookies start with consanants ..i think...i mean what cookie starts with a vowel?
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Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer Feb 4, 2007, 1:45am EST
I did, Melissa. Sounds like you have been through this before? Any words of wisdom?
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Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer Feb 4, 2007, 1:47am EST
I think we're all posting at the same time and these are showing up out of order.

I also think I might have to start serving cookies.
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Missy W. Feb 4, 2007, 1:53am EST
omg, it is saturday night. Saturday is chocolate.
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Melissa The Pirate Princess is still alive! Feb 4, 2007, 1:55am EST
Sorry, no words of wisdom. Sites come and go. The sites that are successful listen to all of their members, not just the few squeaky wheels. I belong to a glbt site that has been around for quite awhile in internet terms. They have been very successful and have a very loyal user base. But they listen to their members. They jump on harassment as soon as it is reported and ban those who don't mend their ways. Amber and Randy would not be tolerated on this site at all.

Kathleen, then you remember how quickly Prodigy went under after the censorship and the mass exodus began. It is very cool about your listserv.
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Heather B. Feb 4, 2007, 2:50am EST
Sandy, you've been a busy lady---not just with your writing but your research. I also am one that reads and comments only part of the time. I am trying, however, to be more pro-active as a commentor as I believe their is some truly deserving talent here on Gather. :0)
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Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer Feb 4, 2007, 3:00am EST
Heather, I keep a spreadsheet with links and stats and compare different sites, so the research wasn't as time-consuming as it might appear. I did have to open most of these to see how many groups I had published to, however, since I don't collect that information on my spreadsheet.

Melissa, I believe censorship (direct, or indirect by allowing people to remove comments others leave) are probably the fastest ways to kill a site.
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Dolphi D. Feb 4, 2007, 3:49am EST
Sandy, it is clear from your carefully researched article as well as from general observations that a large number of connections or publishing to a large number of groups does not necessarily increase the readership. This should open the eyes of those whose lists of groups published to are routinely much longer than their articles. The only result that we often see from such thoughtless publishing is the frequent arguments that break out between the article publishers and the harassed group owners.

If the number of page views are mentioned alongside the rating and the number of comments for each article, that would give a fair indication of the readership for every article as many might be reading the articles but do not bother to rate or to comment.
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Birdie Jaworski Feb 4, 2007, 7:30am EST
Sandy, I read all of your articles and your stories. Most of the time I arrive late to the party and you have a string of wonderful comments, some of which are so comprehensive and well-thought out that I can't imagine what the heck I could add that would be meaningful. But perhaps letting someone know they have been read is just as important as the other things one could say.
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♯ ♪ Feb 4, 2007, 10:19am EST
Wow, Sandy, that's some research. Do you have it broken down as to who said what on what article? I wish I had some research of my own to compare with, but I pulled many of my articles off of Gather. I haven't read many articles (of anyone's) in the past week, since I was out of town and computerless.
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Charles Lennox Feb 4, 2007, 11:10am EST
364 connections? Wow, even if I tripled my connections I still would come up short compared to your "small" list. In fact, even if I didn't weed out my connections here and there, I'd still be short. And I think I've been around here almost as long as you have. But that would probably also explain why I'm never in the most read section, unless you count being read 6-12 times as a phenomenal outreach. Besides, though I'll read people's articles, I'm unable to read as much as I'd like, and I'm not much of a commenter, esp. if i have nothing productive to say other than, Nice read. My low readership may also have something to do with it being Fiction. Not, necessarily, much of a comment piece, but i guess it could be if I wrote something controversial or with a very Nicholas Sparks type of ending.

I do not like articles published to many, many groups. There are a ton of groups for every subject now, and it will only grow, and gatherers should limit their articles to what they consider are the choice groups. Just my opinion.
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Charles Lennox Feb 4, 2007, 11:12am EST
Then again, my low readership could be due to the fact that I suck at what I do. That's a viable reason, huh? :)
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Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer Feb 4, 2007, 11:39am EST
Charles, your point about fiction not offering the same opportunity for comment is an important one. (Your added comment about the possibility that your work sucks is totally inaccurate, in my opinion. You are consistently great.) I think what I am learning here is that many of my mystery readers are Gather members who read but don't comment. I tend to do the same with fiction, because I don't like to leave "I was here" comments and my experience has been that most people do not want to discuss writing. I do try to leave an "I was here" comment occassionally on the work of some I read more often just to let them know I'm still around and watching.

Joane, I just watch numbers and keep links so no, I don't know who said what or even who commented on my work. My goal with the spreadsheet was to see how much traffic each site draws and to have links readily available to my posted work. Since I publish the same work to several sites, I believe it is in my best interest to link outsiders to a site where I don't have groups of hecklers leaving delusional comments about my personal life. That only happens here, so I don't need to mark it on my spreadsheet.
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Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer Feb 4, 2007, 1:51pm EST
I second Kathleeen's recommendation. Charles is one of my favorites and I believe he is greatly underappreciated.
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Laurie White Feb 4, 2007, 2:22pm EST
Sandy, Nancy Spivey wrote an article earlier this week addressing the inconsistency of notifications here on Gather. I know myself that I don't always see all of my connections (about 150) who post when I look under "My Gather"--> "Articles for Me" so I sometimes miss their articles that have been posted. I sometimes will search through all of the articles posted but that can be cumbersome.

I also will sometimes read a posting that is a few days old and has many comments already so I won't post because I feel like I don't have anything of additional value to add. Maybe we should though, so the writer knows we were there and took the time to read their article.
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Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer Feb 4, 2007, 2:45pm EST
Another example of her delusions. She comes to my articles to spam her butterfly and leave her negative drivel. She (and others) come into my threads and leave "good-byes" and tell me how I am not worth their time, repeatedly, which looks a bit silly on their part (must be why the often come back and delete bunches of them).

Did you also notice that she criticizes me for spending MY time on the Internet, by admitting that she knows this because she spends her employer's time tracking me? That's rather priceless in the pathetic category, also.
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Bonnie Sayers Feb 4, 2007, 3:07pm EST
I am on dial up and it is sometimes very slow to wait to post a comment or lose it midway when posting. I seem to spend most of my gather time approving and rejecting articles for my groups and then look around through articles and comments to find stuff to read.

I have not looked in quite awhile at the most read, discussed stuff since every time I did all I saw was the good morning gather articles and that turned me off.

I was told my MaryAnne via email that I am perceived as a gather cop and I should send articles to them instead of posting about stuff in comments, but I did send several articles to abuse@gather.com and complained about the amber alerts all over the site and nothing was responded to. I have noticed my readership and comments went down after I started posting about spelling errors and cut and pastes from other sites, but I do not care as I have my sites I write at where I can check out page views and make sales of books and other items based on my reviews.

I try to read your articles when I have time to peruse and wait for downloads.
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Bonnie Sayers Feb 4, 2007, 3:47pm EST
I did have to reboot after posting comment and losing connection, but wanted to point out what Kevin Weeks mentioned -" I understand that as a correspondent I must seek connections now", I find that interesting and wonder if Gather has a specific number that their correspondents must meet to maintain their job as a correspondent?

I wanted to ask you Sandy what the result was of posting your email address - did you get many responses that way as well?
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