Asian Women Like American Men Because..

well, i am an asian in asia and been one all my life. care for an honest compliment? you guys are more intelligent on the average, maybe thats why they fall for you

I'd been to Thailand and those Asian girls fell in love with me because of all those reasons. But I couldn't blame them. Oh, and a good friend of mine -- he married a Vietnamese girl -- she's here now, owns a car, a nail manicure & pedicure shop, a house and has my friend Frankie serve her hand and foot and if he doesn't she'll sue for divorce. And he thought that Asian women were subservient, that is what he wanted --- boy, did he learn otherwise. His wife catered to him when she was still in Viet Nam but after they married and she came here to the U.S. she showed him.... I will go back to Asia, have some fun but that is all. . .

Ricky...Sounds like a familiar story.

Sucheta..Oh really? So if that's the case, then why don't the Asian girls who are going to school here date American guys. I'll answer that one for you, it's because the Asian girls are already here. No need to hook up with an American guy except to improve their English, which in the rare cases that I've seen of such relationships, the Asian girls were just using the American guys to help them with their English.

This is sounding like some American women I know!

Really Jimmy, there is no difference! lol

Timothy;
China and India will have far fewer women then men in a few years because people in these countries aborted the female babies - very sad. So, if your theory is right then there would be lot more American women for the rest of the guys who are here !

Ladies - there are plenty of good men available in Asia.

Jai....I've read about that. There is also a lot of Asian girls being adopted by American families, and most are Chinese and Indian, but mostly Chinese.

Women like men with green cards and money. I think that sums up your article! :)

You guys all sound cynical to me. I have plenty of interracial friends that are couples where the girl is asian and the guy is caucasian. They all meet either during high school, college, work and has been in a stable relationship for 5 years plus. You guys probably happen to meet the wrong type of asian girls. If you meet the girls in a brothel that already is a telling sign.

Not to mention you shouldn't just generalize toward asian girls. I think the same could be said for Russian, south americans, etc

Im gonna have to totally disagree here. This is an honest statement based on observation...

I find that when Im in China I have women left and right telling me how beautiful my blond hair and blue eyes are. They play with my arm and chest hair and tell me Im hairy like an animal... but perfect! and it stands to reason that my uniqueness definatly makes me a special commodity. It doesnt hurt that I speak some Mandarin and smile and treat them well. My body hairless skinny Chinese friends have also told me that any body hair at all means you are very masculine, as a blond im not really all that hairy, but to them Im a yeti, and an Uber male. Im more muscular than ANY of my Chinese friends too and its just genetics because Im not a gym rat or anything. Im only slightly bigger than avg.

I think that Chinese women like to be smiled at and treated well just like women anywhere in the world and again like women anywhere in the world they are interested in people who stand out and arent just like every other guy in the crowd. Of course you need to stand out for good things not some kind of major disfigurement.

I also have found that many Chinese men, in China, are too afraid of rejection (loss of face) to pony up and ask a girl out and for whatever cultural reason they have no game what so ever. One of my chinese friends told me of a very beautiful Chinese girl, " if you ask her out and she says no, maybe it will be very bad." Well if you dont ask her out you arent EVER going out with her! Competition for attractive females from an early age makes american men socially comfortable and able to compete for their women, especially in a place like China where the competition has never been so intense. Those guys never had the sink or swim trianing we have here in the states.

I go to China all the time and the women DO LIKE me. A lot! maybe Im just special and its not because Im american, but I cant make that kind of distinction because Ive always been American and cant compare otherwise but I like Chinese women partly because they are exotic so why shouldnt they feel the same about me? If they are Asian american they';ve been surounded by american men their whole lives so of course it isnt the same. Anyone trying to use that argument as an equal comparo is an idiot.

Just my two cents. As I said I live in the US and travel to Asia quite a bit.

Sasquatch...You make a good argument, but that doesn't explain why the female Asian students here ( not born here, not Asian American ) very rarely have anyting to do with the male American students ? I've only known a couple of cases of Asian female students dating American guys here where I live.

Timothy... here im going to base a guess on my experience at the U of Bridgeport back in 93 when I had a Japanese gf and a bunch of foreign national friends.

And no im not one of those yellow fever guys (i dont think anyway), I just think there are beautiful women of all physiological groups so why restrict? Ive had White (like me) black, asian and a cherokee indian gfs. I currently find the combination of softer features, that beautiful dark hair and almond eyes that always sort of look to be smiling to a round eyed yuan guai zi like me to be my favorite look but every girl is a unique individual and Im not chasing hotties based on their genetics alone.

Back to my point... It may be that asian women going to school in the US are drawn to the reassurance of the familiar and also repelled by the stereo typing that I try hard to keep out of my own world view IS rampant in the US (like it is in many other countries, Ive caught sh*t for Bush and I didnt vote for the muthr f*&ker, in fact at times Ive feel like political prisoner in my own country lately BUT I DO vote so I am doing what I can) and these girls dont want to be considered "me love you long time" spineless porno waifs who will walk 4 steps back and to the right of their boyfriend. Take these two factors into consideration and I can see why certain girls dont all run after American guys in the US.

Besides I think a fair number of them would go out with an american guy who expressed his interest in a way she would be receptive to, didnt make her feel like a stereotype and was respectful of, showed interest or validated her culture as just as viable and interesting as his own. I can only say that its always worked for me. My Japanese GF at the time was teaching me Japanese at the same time as I helped her w her ESL coursework.

In short Im gonna say its the guy that determines if he has a chance with any girl more than the girl. Almost anyone can break through someones preconcieved notions with the right attitude and a willingness to accept getting shot down a few times before he gets to where he wants to be. Smiles and flowers work too LOL. Cheezy or not they all dig it.

I was reading on an xpat blog site how some 20 something guy in China couldnt make friends after a year in china and he was all cultureshocked and couldnt believe what some of the Chinese would say right in front of him thinkingnhe couldnt understand blah blah. Dude I never have that problem. Of course they stare and all, I might as well have 3 heads to some people who've never seen a muscled up (to them) blond haired, blue eyed, hairy bearded viking walking down their street in PanYu China but once you get over that if you smile at them and say Ni hao! you can immediatly break the ice and proceed to make friends. The Chinese are one of the most friendly, hlpful and hospitable people Ive ever met in my travels. I make friends everywhere I go there. Just an attempt at butchering the local lingo scores so many points and when you go ahead and try eating bugz etc and express interest n things chinese as opposed to just what I have at home it ingraciates me even further.

I dont know, again maybe im the exception but I think you just cant make these kinds of "rules and broad sweeping generalizations without crossing the racist line. Some Chinese girls will obviously see me as a moneybag, but those are not the ones I am interested in anyway. I like the ones who I can have fun playing badminton in the park or going to a teahouse with and never make any promises toward taking them to America. Sometimes they buy me dinner and drinks. I get hit on by managers of fancy hotels or women with their own companies too so its not about my money as these women make more than I do. Im just a shoe designer. I dont own a big company and Im not somebodies high powered CEO. I do know how to treat a woman and I speak enough mandarin to flirt a little.

My 4cents. (sorry if im a bit long winded)

Sasquatch

Which asian countries are you talking about? All of the countries in Asia?? lol
I m from Japan and was NOT looking for a GREEN CARD.
Is this the statement of some American females who couldn't find a right man??

I have a Chinese girlfriend that lives in Harbin China. We talk everyday for about a hour or so. She is 40 years old and has a very good job in marketing for an insurance company. She has never asked me for money or help of any kind. She also has a daughter in high school. Northern Chinese women are more traditional than the big city southern Chinese women. I can truly say, I have never loved a woman so much in my whole life. She and her family are precious to me. At onetime I dated a woman from the Philippines and WOW. The first thing out of her mouth was can you pay for my fathers medicine. She didn't want to tell me about herself. I had to pry answers to my questions out of her. Also about 3 weeks later, she tells me she loves me. I quickly dropped her and never looked back. Scammers are everywhere. Lots of research pays off in the end.