A few days ago I wrote an article about a new friend I'd made at The Second Cup.
http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976854869
Hande and I started talking about our backgrounds. She was born in Turkey, and I was born here in Canada, to a Danish mother and a Canadian father. We talked for a while, and she surprised me with a box of Turkish Delight. She also explained to me the real meaning of the word kismet. Hande explained that it goes way beyond luck, that if something was destined to happen it would. I believed it before, I believe it the night we met, but tonight I really believe it!
Today I'd planned to purchase a laptop cooling pad at Staples, and from there go to Shoppers Drug Mart to get some stuff. I had enough points to get $75 off, and because of a promotion they were going to add an extra $25, so I'd get $100 off, Saturday and Sunday only.
When I got to Staples, my bank card was rejected because there was a problem with the strip. I don't need to tell you that I was annoyed. I decided to go home, and go to Shoppers later.
A few hours later, having had no recent computer problems (I packed the computer in ice so it wouldn't overheat!) I decided to go to Shoppers and get my stuff.
"Hi Leah!"
I looked up to see who had sat down next to me, and there was Hande! We chatted for a while, until she got off one stop before me, at the mall. I did my shopping and went back outside to wait for the bus.
While I waited for the bus I started thinking. Darn! I'd forgotten to ask Hande at what temperature I should boil the water when making Turkish coffee. I also wanted to tell her about Gather.
It would have been faster to cross the street and catch it on the other side, but I had way too much stuff. I knew getting on that bus meant getting home an hour later, but I really didn't care. The bus came, and I got on.
For whatever reason an old Danish Christmas Carol was going around and around in my head. Maybe Mormor was trying to send me a message from Heaven.
"We meet again!"
It was Hande! Had I decided to take the shortcut and take the bus across the street I would have missed her.
She answered my question about Turkish coffee, and I told her a bit about Gather. I hope she joins us. She got off at her stop, and I rode a few stops further to my apartment.
It's one thing to know the meaning of words like kismet, it's another thing to learn from experience.
I don't think I was wrong about that message from Heaven either. Mormor always did like strong coffee and Turkish Delight.
Hande and I are both regulars at The Second Cup, we both ride the busses often, and we have eachother's e-mail addresses. No doubt we will run into eachother often.




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Love and blessings - S.
And Sveta, she just loves my "Russian hat." She thought it was pretty cool, and unique.
But, those Turkish Delites just don't sound good.....
BTW - I understand that now Dell is going to a new marketing strategy, advertising their laptops as having a built in lap-warmer for the cold season... at no extra charge ;o)
You were meant to meet Hande for wahtever reason....you might find out what that reason is eventually, or you might not, but there is a reason.........
Enjoy your new found friendship!
Come on over! ;-)
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Ans thanks for your wonderful comment on my article.
Kismet and karma are a little bit different, but similar too.
Kismet = What is meant to happen will happen REGARDLESS of circumstances, or circumstances will adjust themselves in such a way as to allow your fate to happen.
1 meeting with Hande, we both happened to follow ur normal routine, and go to The Second Cup at the same time. I don't usually go in the evenings, so mine varied somewhat, but we do both usually go there when we want coffee.
2 meeting with Hande, instead of the bus I would have normally taken, my circumstances varied just enough that I took the longer route for practical reasons (I didn't want to cross the street with an armload of grocceries!)
Karma = The way I see it, you reap what you sew. If I was rotten to someone in a past life, or even in the past year, it will come back and bite me in the butt, and my good deeds will revisit me.
Kismet isn't based on past events, it's just MEANT to be, karma is a direct result of how we have lived in the past.