100 things about me. What do you and I have in common?

This article was inspired by Nicole P. I enjoyed reading hers so much  that I decided to create my own. I encourage you to read hers as well at:

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1. I will be 50 years old in 7 months and I am divided between looking forward to it and dreading it.
2. I have one daughter who is 12 years old; a firecracker and the light of my life.
3. I have a husband who will soon be a wasband who has been extraordinarily difficult to be married to these past 2 years.
4. I have one dog, a yellow lab/Rhodesian ridgeback cross, and 2 sweet cats.
5. I own my home, with my soon-to-be wasband. We are negotiating about that.
6. I did massage therapy for 19 years.
7. I am extremely sensitive to, and long for, quality touch.
8. I am taller than almost every woman I know; 5'11".
9. I am all legs, with an inseam of 36".
10. My entire life I have struggled to find pants that are long enough for me.
11. I had waist-length hair for 22 years…it's getting there again.
12. I have the ability to find joy in life on a daily basis.
13. My father was an alcoholic.
14. He quit drinking when I was 2 years old and was sober until he died 26 years later.
15. I chose a few alcoholic/substance abuser boyfriends, including my daughter's father.
16. I never married my daughter's father.
17. I spent 4 years in Alanon, learning to place the focus back on myself, where it belongs. My first big chunk of personal growth was because of Alanon.
18. I am the youngest of 4 girls.
19. I am closest to my oldest sister who lives an hour away from me. She is one of my best friends.
20. I lost my mother, my father, and the sister closest to me in age, in 3 consecutive years, 18 years ago.
21. I enjoy astrology. I am a Cancer with moon in Leo and Libra rising.
22. At present I consider my partner choosing abilities to have, well, SUCKED.
23. I first smoked pot at the age of 16.
24. I last smoked pot at the age of 29.
25. I rolled a VW bug on a mountain road and walked away with 8 stitches on my shoulder.
26. I have backpacked Mt Whitney, Mt Langley, and the Grand Canyon.
27. I am quite adept at country western dancing.
28. I love to write.
29. I rode a 1978 Honda 750 motorcycle for a year, with no other transportation.
30. I have always wanted a Harley.
31. I have traveled to Grenada, Australia, Canada and Mexico, as well as across the entire US.
32. My entire family spent summers traveling and camping all over the US.
33. My father was a junior high school math teacher.
34. My mother was a "keypuncher", now called data entry.
35. I treasure my friends.
36. I especially treasure my women friends; they sustain me.
37. I sometimes use the Motherpeace tarot deck for guidance.
38. I am very intolerant of intolerant people…LOL….really.
39. I am practically militantly supportive of gay rights/gay marriage.
40. A gay friend of mine is the most rewarding person to send male beefcake emails to.
41. I have a goal of bicycling across America.
42. I plan to do it with the same woman friend who I did all the backpacking with.
43. I have never had a new car.
44. I'm kind of pissed off about that.
45. My favorite color is deep, royal purple.
46. I love to bicycle.
47. I smoked for 5 years. I recently started again due to stress, but quit effortlessly after I climbed Mt. Langley.
48. I had an abortion when I was 19, and it trips me out to think I would have a 30 year old child right now if I had not had the abortion.
49. I have been more politically active this year than ever before in my life.
50. I love the ocean.
51. I occasionally write erotica.
52. I love to read.
53. I was identified as "gifted" in 3rd grade.
54. I have homeschooled my daughter for the past 4 years.
55. I have judgment and contempt for the public school system.
56. I birthed my daughter at home with a midwife.
57. That was the most empowering experience of my entire life.
58. I gave my daughter my last name instead of her father's.
59. I have never changed my last name (married twice).
60. My magazine subscriptions are: Ode, National Geographic Traveler, The Sun, and Sunset (courtesy of my real estate agent).
61. I aspire to having something published in The Sun or Ode.
62. I am trained in Herbalism, and use the knowledge to keep my family healthy.
63. I never vaccinated my daughter; a conscious choice.
64. I stay as far away as possible from Western Medicine.
65. I took a 3 year God-based Shaman course that changed my life.
66. I have despair and dismay about how different religions cannot coexist peacefully.
67. I am deeply spiritual, but rarely attend church.
68. When I drive somewhere regularly, I like to take different routes.
69. I like to have cupboards and a freezer full of food; it makes me feel rich.
70. I really, really, love chocolate.
71. I aspire to receiving weekly massages.
72. A few of my favorite movies: "To Wong Foo, Thanks For Everything! Julie Newmar", Somewhere in Time, Monty Python and The Holy Grail, Dangerous Beauty, The Breakfast Club, LOTR, The Matrix.
73. My favorite song: James Taylor's You've Got a Friend.
74. Stars I have massaged (literally): Sting (Oh BABY), Jennifer Tilly, Rickie Lee Jones, Jimmy Messina.
75. My father grew up on a farm in Nebraska.
76. My mother grew up in Chicago.
77. They met in California; both had traveled there in search of the good life.
78. I am ¼ Swedish, ¼ Czechoslovakian, English, French and some other stuff.
79. I enjoy the challenge of public speaking.
80. I now make my living in sales.
81. I am, like Nicole, realizing that 100 is a large number.
82. I love having people over for dinner and board games.
83. I play poker well.
84. I talk a lot; love to tell stories.
85. I had to consciously try to keep my mouth shut during the 19 years I did massage.
86. I give better than I receive.
87. I love big words!
88. I love to look at women as much as men; I think I was male in my last life.
89. I have a zestful passion for life, and not a lot of fear.
90. I do not fear death.
91. I do fear the death of my daughter.
92. A good magazine cover of Viggo Mortensen has been known to stop me in my tracks at the supermarket.
93. I long to find the right man, and spend the rest of my life with him.
94. I am afraid my "chooser" is warped and not up to the task.
95. I love to garden, but rarely find the time.
96. I can be controlling.
97. I love to be held.
98. I am very opinionated.
99. I don't like people telling me what to do.
100. I like long, slow, tender and soft kisses.