I am always fascinated by people and their reactions to me. I try so hard to be loving, understanding and kind. But despite my efforts, there are always those who get a (to put it quite simply) "bitch" on about something I might have said or done. This is inevitable in life and one must learn to let it roll off their back like water on a duck.
However, when it comes from someone who doesn't even know you and right smack out of the blue, you have to wonder if everything is really all right in THEIR world. I know mine is the same and I'm happy. Why has someone suddenly decided to "take me on?" Why have they suddenly decided that I will be their "victim" for today?
I'm sure you've encountered this problem. We all have from time to time. Life is just running smoothly and all of a sudden, the lady at the bank snarls at you or the checkout clerk gives you one of those "I really don't have time for you" looks. Or how about a neighbor who's mad at you for something – God knows what! It is difficult enough dealing with our family and friends sometimes, without worry about what strangers are thinking every moment of the day.
You might well wonder what has gotten me onto this rant. The reason is that this problem surfaced first thing this morning on Gather today. Someone decided that I would be the object of their nasty attitude and sharp pen. Why? I have no idea.
I suspect there was a Gather glitch, because this person claims to have received the third in a series of emails from me about an article featured on Gather recently. I have no idea why he keeps getting them. All I do know is that he is fuming mad and suggested reporting me if it happens again.
Well, it won't happen again. I have made sure of that by deleting him as a friend and blocking future emails from him. Problem solved!
One thing people should realize is that the virtual world can be very impersonal. You can lash out at anyone you like, but that does not mean they have to put up with it. It is just "too" easy to "delete" that person from your virtual world. And all I have to say about that is: Hoorah!
Another thing people should realize is that they expend far too much energy when they get their "bitch" on about someone. They also extend that "negative energy" to the other person, which can often have adverse affects. Things can snowball way out of proportion, until neither party makes sense anymore.
That is definitely not my choice. End it now and end it quick! Who really has time for this nonsense?
And speaking of energy, thoughts themselves are pure energy. Always be careful to extend positive thoughts. We are all brothers and sisters in this world and the more positive thoughts we emit into space (and cyberspace), the more positive our world will become.
Have a great day!


Comments: 28
The comfort zone for some people is constant anger and outrage. If it doesn't find them they create it or go hunting for something to be angry and outraged about.
Hey so and so,
I am awfully sorry if I have offended you in anyway, or hurt your sensibilities ...but I fail to understand as to what hurt you? I am sure we can sort out things in better ways.
This person will think twice before repeating his act with others. The Delete button is a quick relief, not a cure.
Take it easy Martha, and you did the right thing.
Thanks.
*Thumbs up!*
Peace,
Cherri
Mary: Thank you so much! Just because I may be feeling physically like hell here at my computer is no reason to pass that vibe on to everyone else. It does no one any good. Positive vibes, on the otherhand, are always a good thing. Even with family and friends here, if I am feeling awful, I just slip away without saying anything. I think they know, without my going into any detail.
John: You're such a sweetheart and always make me laugh!
Ravi: I will not name this person. He is not here to defend himself.
To all others: Thank you so much for your support. It really does mean the world to me.
YES MARTHA. Sadly there are people like this all over.
I am glad NOT be in that catagory. Thanks for sharing.