Personal energies, karma and the things that happen to us.

Have you ever seen someone who just seems to be having the worst day ever?? I see people like this all the time working at a hotel's front desk. When certain people walk into a room you can tell they are going to be a real pain. These usually are they people who will not talk to you like a human being. They either throw down a confirmation email or just won't acknowledge you at all. I always figure they just must be having a bad day, I mean I know how I feel after hours upon hours of traveling… But you don't have to be completely mean to everyone around you!

 
Anyway, it just seems that the people who walk in all upset or grumpy are the people who feel like they have been wronged the most by our hotel. Sometimes they hate that their room is far or they hate that it looks a certain direction or maybe the people above them are loud or their room key won't work. There are a billion different things that could displease them. My point is in general the grumpy guests have the worst stuff "happen" to them. Maybe they are looking for or expecting things to go wrong, maybe it is their personal energy or maybe it is just karma.. Either way it is very fascinating.

 
I actually had a personal experience with this type of negative energy several months back. I was having a bad day and I was looking for a specific pair of jeans. I was probably running late or something. Anyway I could not find my jeans! I was trying to look in drawers and the drawers would not open, then they were over flowing with clothes. Finally I got so frustrated I tried to take the drawer completely out of the dresser, it would not come out.. I was pulling and getting madder. Finally the dresser drawer came out and I sort of flung it onto the bed.. Well it bounced right up off the bed and smashed a hole in the wall!! By no means did I throw the dresser drawer into the wall but it hit the wall and put a nice hole there. I am sure this whole hole in the wall thing happened because of the negative energy I was giving off. I am sure of this because when I am in a similar situation and I can manage to remain positive nothing crazy happens. Has anyone else had an experience similar to this??

 
I have just found that keeping positive helps me get through the awfulness. There is a quote that says "Sometimes you are the pidgin, sometimes you are the statue"… Talina's translation= Crappy stuff happens sometimes and we cannot control what life throws our way we can only control how we choose to deal with it. If a bird poops on you how will you react?? I would probably laugh, cry and run to a shower!!

Make it a great day!!

About the Author:
Talina Norris is a small business owner (www.craftedcustomgifts.com), a dance teacher and published writer who enjoys writing about health related topics, leadership and becoming a better person. Talina's many articles can be found on her blog site (www.craftedcustomgifts.com/wordpress).