http://akanemd.gather.com Recent Articles on Gather by Anthony Kane, MD en-us Copyright Gather Inc 2009 Tue, 05 Jan 2010 15:26:36 GMT 2010-01-05T15:26:36Z en-us Copyright Gather Inc 2009 http://www.gather.com/images/header/logo_gather.gif http://www.gather.com/ http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954808 You're looking for a parent method that provides positive guidance for children. And you've heard about using consequences for controlling emotions and improving behavior. Well, I can help. . . . Sat, 19 Dec 2009 18:43:46 GMT http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954808 Anthony Kane, MD 2009-12-19T18:43:46Z http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954804 Parenting kids with ADHD can be a daunting task. Normal child discipline methods, like limits and consequences, just don't work effectively. At least they don't work without some extra help. . . . Sat, 19 Dec 2009 18:36:55 GMT http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954804 Anthony Kane, MD 2009-12-19T18:36:55Z http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954797 Today I want to discuss discipline and bad children. I want to point out that “bad children” are really a misnomer. Bad children are not bad. It is that they don’t know how to meet . . . Sat, 19 Dec 2009 18:30:37 GMT http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954797 Anthony Kane, MD 2009-12-19T18:30:37Z http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954788 Hey, baseball is a great sport, but if you find your kid cursing because he's not winning, you can turn his favorite sport into some win-win discipline and hit a home run with some effective parenting. . . . Sat, 19 Dec 2009 18:24:13 GMT http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954788 Anthony Kane, MD 2009-12-19T18:24:13Z http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954777 What is effective parenting ? It's setting limits and enforcing consequences.  Setting limits is not about wanting to control your child's life or needing to be there at every step of the way.  . . . Sat, 19 Dec 2009 18:12:54 GMT http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954777 Anthony Kane, MD 2009-12-19T18:12:54Z http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954771 Effective parenting can be defined as applying child discipline when and where it is necessary.  Know when to set limits, how to apply consequences and have a concrete strategy in place as you . . . Sat, 19 Dec 2009 18:06:19 GMT http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954771 Anthony Kane, MD 2009-12-19T18:06:19Z http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954744 Do you have problems disciplining teenagers in your home? The number one parenting tool that works for everyone is consequences.  That's right, you set out limits for your children and then follow . . . Sat, 19 Dec 2009 18:01:23 GMT http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954744 Anthony Kane, MD 2009-12-19T18:01:23Z http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954738 I have a number of years experience working with parents to develop effective parenting skills.  A common mistake I discovered is that many parents equate punishing you kids to disciplining your . . . Sat, 19 Dec 2009 17:50:21 GMT http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954738 Anthony Kane, MD 2009-12-19T17:50:21Z http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954720 So you find your kid cursing or yelling at you regularly and you quickly realize that you've got to understand how to discipline your child before things get any worse.  Is there a solutio n to your . . . Sat, 19 Dec 2009 17:31:13 GMT http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954720 Anthony Kane, MD 2009-12-19T17:31:13Z http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954689 Does your child dislike his face being touched? Does he want you the remove the tags from his clothes before he agrees to wear them? Does he dislike touching things which, according to him, . . . Sat, 19 Dec 2009 16:50:41 GMT http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954689 Anthony Kane, MD 2009-12-19T16:50:41Z http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954680 Children are known to indulge in lying at some point or another, and this is only one small facet of your child’s growing up. As your child continues growing up, he will want to experiment with . . . Sat, 19 Dec 2009 16:42:09 GMT http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954680 Anthony Kane, MD 2009-12-19T16:42:09Z http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954668 Summer vacations are times when we parents can often be found wondering what we can do to keep our children occupied. This is also a time when we can find ourselves at a loss for ideas. We, . . . Sat, 19 Dec 2009 16:35:22 GMT http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954668 Anthony Kane, MD 2009-12-19T16:35:22Z http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954654 It is imperative that you provide your child with the proper nutrition from very early on in his life. This is one of the most important factors in the development of a child’s brain. This . . . Sat, 19 Dec 2009 16:17:17 GMT http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954654 Anthony Kane, MD 2009-12-19T16:17:17Z http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954640 Parenting and coping with your child’s temper tantrums and violent outbursts can be quite difficult and this write up aims to make things easier for you. There are a few things that every . . . Sat, 19 Dec 2009 16:01:56 GMT http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977954640 Anthony Kane, MD 2009-12-19T16:01:56Z http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977852046 Hi- There is free CD on the secrets to effective child and teen discipline I thing this will benefit the parents in the group. Warmly, Anthony Kane, MD http://addadhdadvances.com   . . . Tue, 13 Oct 2009 22:18:28 GMT http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977852046 Anthony Kane, MD 2009-10-13T22:18:28Z http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977817848 Today we will go into how you feel when your child has a public tantrum and what you should do to tackle the situation. There are many instances where your child creates a ruckus in a crowded . . . Fri, 18 Sep 2009 19:08:19 GMT http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977817848 Anthony Kane, MD 2009-09-18T19:08:19Z http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977817807 Today I want to stress the importance of handling violent children . Some children at the age of 5, 6 or 7 have the natural tendency of being violent in situations where something goes wrong. . . . Fri, 18 Sep 2009 18:46:03 GMT http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977817807 Anthony Kane, MD 2009-09-18T18:46:03Z http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977817767 Let’s discuss the difference between a child’s rough play and violent child behavior . Sometimes, th e difference is hard to determine when children get excited. Boys, especially, . . . Fri, 18 Sep 2009 18:12:03 GMT http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977817767 Anthony Kane, MD 2009-09-18T18:12:03Z http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977817715 Today’s poin t of discussion will be how to react when your child murmurs a curse at you. This type of defiant behavior usually shows itself when you punish or give a consequence . . . Fri, 18 Sep 2009 17:28:00 GMT http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977817715 Anthony Kane, MD 2009-09-18T17:28:00Z http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977817559 Today we’ll deal with situations where your child may swear at you. This usually happens whe n you punish your child and he responds by using curse words. You must understand your child’s . . . Fri, 18 Sep 2009 15:14:14 GMT http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977817559 Anthony Kane, MD 2009-09-18T15:14:14Z http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977810787 Let’s talk about when you know it is the right time to involve the police when dealing with your child’s obedience defiance disorder ( odd ). Normally, involving the police when . . . Sun, 13 Sep 2009 16:50:03 GMT http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977810787 Anthony Kane, MD 2009-09-13T16:50:03Z http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977810761 Today’s parenting tip is about dealing with your children cursing or using foul language . The primary thing to remember is that in almost all cases, little children do not know the meaning . . . Sun, 13 Sep 2009 16:30:34 GMT http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977810761 Anthony Kane, MD 2009-09-13T16:30:34Z http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977805941 It is very important to know how to react to your child’s defiant behavior in public . I am aware of the fact that parents can easily get embarrassed and feel everybody’s eyes on them, . . . Wed, 09 Sep 2009 18:39:18 GMT http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474977805941 Anthony Kane, MD 2009-09-09T18:39:18Z